After reading Bunny's thread about how she and her husband are going to be working opposite schedules so that their son always has a parent with him, it got me thinking.
I always thought that kids would really add something special to your relationship. I want to have Justin's babies someday because I love him, and I want to produce a child that looks something like both of us and has some of each of our traits. But does having children affect your relationship in a NEGATIVE way, like so you can't spend the quality time together that you used to? I guess I just never thought about it.
Justin and I like to spend a lot of time together, and do fun things. We like to go out to eat, go golfing, go to the shooting range, and all kinds of things together on our days off. If we had kids, will that all go out the window? Will we still have romance in our relationship, or will that be thrown away with the placenta?
What are your experiences? For those in a relationship with children, how is your relationship different (better? worse?) now than it was before kids?
I always thought that kids would really add something special to your relationship. I want to have Justin's babies someday because I love him, and I want to produce a child that looks something like both of us and has some of each of our traits. But does having children affect your relationship in a NEGATIVE way, like so you can't spend the quality time together that you used to? I guess I just never thought about it.
Justin and I like to spend a lot of time together, and do fun things. We like to go out to eat, go golfing, go to the shooting range, and all kinds of things together on our days off. If we had kids, will that all go out the window? Will we still have romance in our relationship, or will that be thrown away with the placenta?
What are your experiences? For those in a relationship with children, how is your relationship different (better? worse?) now than it was before kids?