UPDATE:
I keep hitting a brick wall with this whole ordeal. No one seems to be taking me seriously and I'm getting the brush off. But that old saying "the squeaky wheel gets the grease" holds some truth to it.
I have been calling and calling anyone and everyone who will listen to me. I am heading down to the magistrates office in the morning to file a request for a behavioral warrant. They only meet once a week for criminal warrant requests
And because they only meet once a week, she said it could be several weeks before the judge would be able to see the request. I guess that's what I get for living in a small town. So, in the meantime, I guess we have to deal with him harassing her.
I also have managed to finally get a meeting with the school officer, principal and guidance counselor all at the same time tomrorrow morning to see if we can all agree on a plan to solve the problem of her having to face him everyday because he's in her first period class. He is almost 19... it's a privelage for him to attend school at this point... and he can be expelled for behavior such as his.
I would have thought that having him arrested yesterday would have been the jolt he needed to realize we weren't fooling around and we meant what we said, but it wasn't. He's still saying he's going to have contact with her and he'd like to see us stop him from being able to talk to her at school.
I don't want to pursue having him expelled from school because it's his only chance to graduate.. but if he leaves me no choice.. then I will pursue it. Why can't he just accept that it's over and forget about her??!!??