DanL said:
How many times in your life have you been confronted by a criminal with a gun?
As a civilian, once. In the military, often.
I'm almost 43 and have never been put in that situation. The problem is, if someone points a gun at you, you don't have time to get your own gun out, and if you do, you better be ready to use it.
To expand upon the one time I had to use it as a civilian. It was about 2am and I was stopped at a stoplight. I noticed the punk at a cross walk. Anyway, he started walking across the road as soon as I stopped. He got near my car, pulled a really beat up looking P38, tried to open my door (it was locked). He yelled "open the FU**in door. I asked him to wait a minute, he then looked away.... That is when I pulled MY Sig Sauer P226. I did not even have to point it at him. As soon as he saw it, he ran. My guess is he did not even have ammo. Either way, the fact I had a weapon, stopped a crime. And YES, I was very prepared to use it. I had every right TO shoot him, but I did not because I did not HAVE too.
I am VERY confident in my ability with a firearm and I know the law. I am very prepared to use it to defend myself and my family. I WILL NOT be a victim.
Most likely the person on the end of the other gun is a little more crazy than you and is in a desparate state of mind. I think it'd be easier to give them what they want and move on. A wallet can be replaced. Your children's father cannot.
Of course... I will never escalate a situation in which I have no chance of success. BUT, given a opportunity, you better believe I will defend myself. I believe in doing the right thing, even if it is hard. The RIGHT thing to do is to stand up for yourself, if you can.
I refuse to be scared into submission by criminals. However, I am not a inheritly violent person but I know how to handle myself in violent situations.
It is the difference between being a sheep or being a wolfhound.