Fannie is completely controlable! I do wear a helmet when I jump 3"5', but I'm not stupid. Maybe a bit risktaking, but not stupid! You, my mom, my grammy, and and my sibs are the only people who have ever called me stupid. I don't know if you meant it, but they did. Otherwise, they wouldn't constantly say it. Every time I (AKA stupid) fall off my horse, she screeches to a halt and waits for me to get up. I don't care if you call me stupid, I'm used to it. Really. It used to hurt. Bad. But not anymore. It just sorta seeps in, stings for a moment, then filters out.