My boyfriend and I aren't talking right now. I needed some time to think. He actually suggested that I take some time away from him to do so. So I am. This happened two days ago. There's more to the story as there always is but basically here's the pickle I'm in.
Our mutual friend is leaving to another country for a year. He's known her for 3+ years. They are extremely close. I've only known her three months. He is going to the airport with a few of our other mutual friends to go say good-bye. She really wants me to come. I really don't want to make anyone feel weird. I'm not ready to talk to him about it yet and I don't want to add our crap ontop of him having to say good-bye to his best friend. But she wants me to go.
It feels like a double edge sword here. I go and make the situation harder on him. I don't go and she'll be upset. However I am jumping to the conclusion it's going to be harder for him as he never said that. I did leave him a message asking how he'd feel about it but he's at work so he hasn't responded yet. All my buddies keep telling me to come and screw how he's going to feel about the situation as I should be more concerned about how Alex will feel if I don't go beause she's the one leaving. But that doesn't sound right either.
Blah. I feel like such a drama queen right now. I have no idea what to do. Someone tell me what to do please? It may not seem like that big of a deal, but I'm crying right now because I love Alex and I want to be able to say good-bye to her.
Our mutual friend is leaving to another country for a year. He's known her for 3+ years. They are extremely close. I've only known her three months. He is going to the airport with a few of our other mutual friends to go say good-bye. She really wants me to come. I really don't want to make anyone feel weird. I'm not ready to talk to him about it yet and I don't want to add our crap ontop of him having to say good-bye to his best friend. But she wants me to go.
It feels like a double edge sword here. I go and make the situation harder on him. I don't go and she'll be upset. However I am jumping to the conclusion it's going to be harder for him as he never said that. I did leave him a message asking how he'd feel about it but he's at work so he hasn't responded yet. All my buddies keep telling me to come and screw how he's going to feel about the situation as I should be more concerned about how Alex will feel if I don't go beause she's the one leaving. But that doesn't sound right either.
Blah. I feel like such a drama queen right now. I have no idea what to do. Someone tell me what to do please? It may not seem like that big of a deal, but I'm crying right now because I love Alex and I want to be able to say good-bye to her.