JJSMOM- Look above your post..lol
I don't mind that you think that way. People believe in different stuff right?
I don't mind that you think that way. People believe in different stuff right?
:lol-sign: Sorry about that iluvdogs! We must have been posting at the same time.. lol! Thank you (and to lubspaniel too) for explaining the significance for you. I agree.. every couple is different and it is a personal choice.
For my SO and I we just got engaged less than 2 weeks ago after being together for 12 ½ years. We have lived together for 12 of those years, raised his kids from his first marriage together and so for us, no promise ring was ever necessary. We both knew that neither of us was going anywhere and we were truly committed to one another. TBH, part of the reason we didn’t get married early on is because we had some issues within our relationship to work on and now those issues are resolved. To us being married though isn’t all that important and we decided to tie the know finally because several of our family members have been hoping for a wedding for years. Some of these members aren’t in good health and so we made the decision to make it “legal†so that they could see this happen in their lifetime. To us, it changes NOTHING about our relationship or our future together and we are treating our wedding as a “celebration†of our decade+ together and want the families to share in that celebration. We aren’t even registering for gifts or anything, cuz for us this is different than a normal “weddingâ€. We are at different places in our lives and in our life together as a couple than most folks who are “engagedâ€.
So again, to each his own and all that matters is what is important to the parties involved