I'm in the "gross and creepy" camp. Once my pet is dead, that dead body means absolutely nothing to me because it's just a shell. To remember my pet, I have digital photography.
I don't see cremating and keeping the ashes in an urn as gross or creepy. Those ashes are in a (usually decorative) container, and they aren't a soulless corpse that resembles a once living creature, just standing there and staring through you.
I don't see cremating and keeping the ashes in an urn as gross or creepy. Those ashes are in a (usually decorative) container, and they aren't a soulless corpse that resembles a once living creature, just standing there and staring through you.