Thanks, everybody!!! You guys are my extended family!!! We are SOOOO FREAKIN' happy, we will make anybody sick!!! LOL. My sister has known this man since they were teenagers, and 5 years ago she was begging him to go out with me. He's known her forever (I didn't hang out with them) and she has "her ways"... and the clincher to why he didn't want to is because she said "you'll love her.... she's just a miniture version of 'ME'"! Lolol... he was like "OH GAWD!"... Lol. Well, he gave it a shot and sent me an e-mail that said nothing more than "want to meet for a beer?". And my response was nothing more than "sure." Four-1/2 years later we're still together and found out after splitting up (multiple times, but the last time was the kicker), what we had in each other. We'll be married at the end of a dock at sunset on a cool lake in Floridq in 3 weeks. I'll be sure to post some pictures and include my favorite Chaz friends, don't worry. I'm so freakin' HAPPY!