So, I've been seriously considering joining a training club. I've been more interested in training and not just parlor tricks but trials or at least the training leading up to trialing. I need a positive hobby, J-Roc needs a mental and physical outlet...so it seems like a step in the right direction. The only thing I'm hung up on is the requirements to get in the club. I don't know if sharing a link to the training club is allowed so I'll outline what's causing me to trip:
Our club requires prospective members to: (a) be sponsored by TWO CLUB MEMBERS in good standing and (b) to be approved for membership by a MAJORITY OF CLUB MEMBERS.
Ask two club members to be your sponsors. If you are a new acquaintance, or new to the dog world, don't be surprised if they ask some questions to get to know you better. They may even ask to visit you at your home. We want to get to know you, so we can be sure that you agree with our values and are willing to be an active member in our club.
Ok, so I know that doesn't sound like they're asking much but it causes me to hesitate. Let's say I go to the meetings and decide, "Hey, all these activities sounds like a good time!" But once I sign up for their classes it doesn't LOOK like I'm having the best time ever. These club members are judging me and having a case of Resting Bitch Face doesn't really help. Social anxiety doesn't either. I haven't been a "serious dog person." I've never so much as picked up a Karen Pryor or Ian Dunbar book and my pup although well-behaved isn't a canine Einstein.
I hate sounding defeated before I've even attended a meeting but I'm worried I won't live up to their standards. I'm young, live in an apartment and am eating ramen while J-Roc is eating commercial dog food. She has second hand toys, one leash, a few collars and her bed is an old folded up comforter. I don't want these club members to come to our place look around and deem me an unfit owner and potential club member. Any advice, thoughts, suggestions or experiences both positive and negative?
Our club requires prospective members to: (a) be sponsored by TWO CLUB MEMBERS in good standing and (b) to be approved for membership by a MAJORITY OF CLUB MEMBERS.
Ask two club members to be your sponsors. If you are a new acquaintance, or new to the dog world, don't be surprised if they ask some questions to get to know you better. They may even ask to visit you at your home. We want to get to know you, so we can be sure that you agree with our values and are willing to be an active member in our club.
Ok, so I know that doesn't sound like they're asking much but it causes me to hesitate. Let's say I go to the meetings and decide, "Hey, all these activities sounds like a good time!" But once I sign up for their classes it doesn't LOOK like I'm having the best time ever. These club members are judging me and having a case of Resting Bitch Face doesn't really help. Social anxiety doesn't either. I haven't been a "serious dog person." I've never so much as picked up a Karen Pryor or Ian Dunbar book and my pup although well-behaved isn't a canine Einstein.
I hate sounding defeated before I've even attended a meeting but I'm worried I won't live up to their standards. I'm young, live in an apartment and am eating ramen while J-Roc is eating commercial dog food. She has second hand toys, one leash, a few collars and her bed is an old folded up comforter. I don't want these club members to come to our place look around and deem me an unfit owner and potential club member. Any advice, thoughts, suggestions or experiences both positive and negative?