Why do I keep giving dogs SA?????????

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My beagle has *BAD* separation anxiety, and now my foster is getting some massive separation anxiety started. We've read the books, we follow the "Rules" but why do dogs get *SO* clingy to me!!! Is it because I am almost always home? Or something else? This is not healthy for them and I want to know what I am doing so I can stop it *NOW*
 

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I know it is usually said that when you first get your dog you should be home with him all the time for a few days but I think that can lead to SA. I think you should start leaving him home for short periods of time right off the bat, making sure he is well amused while you are gone. Over a few days increase the amount of time he is alone for. If the dog gets used to you being home all the time then it will be new and scary when you leave him.
 
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yeah like I said, I am home all the time. It's not so bad with hubby cause he works, Maybe I will just have to be gone on occasion for the day, no idea how i do that though being he has the car!
 

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do you crate him at all while you are home? That helped my dog get over the separation thing--he is much better now.
 

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You know, I was worried that would happen here. I work from home so I am home A LOT. So my trainer gave me this idea to keep her separated from me in the house. My office is upstairs so I trained Tosca to stay downstairs so she wasn't right next to me all the time. She doesn't have separation anxiety and I think that is the reason. I can leave the house for an entire day and she is not crated either. The only residual problem, if it's a problem: She will not come upstairs without an invitation, and she actually chooses to be downstairs at the foot of the stairs during the night.
 
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When we first got Pinkie, we didn't leave her alone for one minute until she was almost a year old. If we weren't home, she went everywhere with us. She's never suffered from separation anxiety, although she'll pout sometimes.

Conversely, the male rescued dog I've had for almost a year has bad separation anxiety. When we first got him, he apparently would lie at the door from the time I left until I got back, but he's gotten better about that. I still can't leave him in their playyard with Pinkie and go back in the house, tho; he'll sit at the gate and whine & bark. He's glued to me everywhere I go in the house and even if he's sleeping, I can't go 10 feet into my bathroom without him following me. He's probably about 2 now, and it's something I work with him on quite a bit. He's slowly doing better, but I wonder if he's really ever going to get over it. He *was* abandoned and passed around quite a bit before I got him.

I feel that separation anxiety comes from insecurity and I try to figure out if it's something I'm doing, so I can correct it. I saw a documentary on human babies one time that showed how a mother playing "peek a boo" with her baby actually taught the baby that the mother was coming back after "leaving" and made the baby more secure.

I've tried that with Willie a couple of times, using bed sheets or towels, and his reaction is quite interesting. He's surprised at the new game at first, then starts getting quite agitated as I keep doing it - excited & playful, but also scared & not quite sure it's a game. I don't let that get too far before I stop the game and give him some loving & reassurance. He's getting better with it, so I hope it'll do him some good in the long run.

Now Pinkie? She knows it's a game and divebombs me from the other side. LOL
 

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