What Do YOU Think?

[Lizmo]

So Dreeza'a thread got me thinking, What Do You Think About Sex?

Do you think it is a good or bad think?

Should it be saved for Marrige?

If You have never had it, do you looks forward?



Me personally, I think it is going() to be great thing, an awsome thing that should be saved for your husband, and your husband should save it for his wife too. Speaking about me....My body is saved for my husband, and no one else. And Yes I look forward to it, when I am married! On that special "night" My husband is going to know things about me and my body that know one else should know.


So what are your views on it?

And Mods, if this is not okay, please delete it.

 

[RD]

It's a VERY good thing. Lol.

I think if people want to wait for marriage, that's great. It's a personal choice and I can't say that every individual should abstain until marriage.

 

[~Jessie~]

I think that it is a personal choice, and that you should save yourself for someone that you are in love with. I don't think that you have to be married, but I do think that you need to care about the person.

 

[Lizmo]

It's a VERY good thing. Lol.

Good I am not the only one that thinks it is a VERY good thing!

But I do not want people thinking I am going to go out and have sex just because I think it is a VERY good thing.

 

[Whisper]

I think that it's a special thing for people to share together. I don't really think that everyone should have to wait until marriage. . .I agree with Grace. It's a personal choice and a lot of people will and a lot of people won't.
ETA: To answer the other question I do think it is a wonderful thing.

 

[~Jessie~]

Oh yes, I also think it's a really good thing Hehe!

 

[jess2416]

Do you think it is a good or bad thing?

Should it be saved for Marrige?

If You have never had it, do you looks forward?

Those are personal choices that everyone has to make for themselves..

I think it is a very good thing (sometimes )

I couldnt see myself waiting till I was married because (this is going to sound shallow but I dont care) I couldnt be with someone if we didnt have (ummm how can I say this properly) a good physical relationship

 

[RD]

I agree, Jess. If I wasn't sexually compatible with someone I think that would affect our relationship, and it's something I'd like to know about BEFORE I make the commitment.

 

[zoe08]

I think it is something that should be shared with the person you love. You don't always have to wait til marriage, but I think it shouldn't be something rushed into. I think there should be a relationship outside of sex established first.

 

[jess2416]

I agree, Jess. If I wasn't sexually compatible with someone I think that would affect our relationship, and it's something I'd like to know about BEFORE I make the commitment.

Sexually compatible....<---- thats the nice way to say it that I was looking for :lol-sign: but I agree, its something that I WANT to know....

 

[~Jessie~]

^^^ I agree with Jess and RD.

 

[Dreeza]

I think it is a fantastic thing

I also think it should be saved for someone you love, and more importantly, someone that loves you back..,however, i dont frown on 'booty calls' as long as the 2 people at least know each other well, and are comfortable with each other, and SAFE!

I couldnt wait till marriage, but the way its going, i will marry the only guy i have had sex with I dont disagree with sex until marriage, cept i have seen a few too many people marry too soon cause they cant wait any longer...and i dont agree with that (if that makes sense...i know someone who just got married after knowing a guy for 6 months...)

 

[~Jessie~]

My best friend in highschool was very anti sex before marriage. She used to criticize everyone who didn't wait. Anyway, she ended up having sex on a sunday afternoon in a parking garage in some 28 year old's BMW Z3. It was crazy.

 

[tessa_s212]

I think it is something that should be shared with the person you love. You don't always have to wait til marriage, but I think it shouldn't be something rushed into. I think there should be a relationship outside of sex established first.

I agree completely.

I don't exactly have the experience or mindset to think as sex as wonderful, and I can't say that I'm looking forward to it.. (and no, it isn't just because I'm some person that thinks sex should be frowned upon).

I certainly encourage sex to be waited for and only shared with your life partner. I guess what I'm saying is that I can see a difference between a person that has an extremely good relationship that has been going on for quite some time having sex with that person and has reason to believe that they will be together for the rest of their lives, rather than just a person that goes out and sleeps around.

 

[GSDluver4lyfe]

Do you think it is a good or bad think?

Definately a good thing

Should it be saved for Marrige?

Thats a personal decision. I thought to wait till marraige when I was younger but you change as you grow and mature. I wouldnt have wanted to go through certain feelings (both mentally and physically) you have your first time on my wedding night.

If You have never had it, do you looks forward?
I did look forward to it when I was younger, and let me just say it doesnt mean too much if you have no feelings for the person.

 

[bubbatd]

Well , I can see this going on forever with many posts that have been stated before . I will only state that I do not approve of teenage sex .... at this stage it's hormones , not true love . Premarital sex with someone you are completely committed to and the same on your partners side , I'll accept . This being when you are of age ....18 or over .... . Yes , I was 19 and we were married for almost 50 years . Ideally , a woman should be 21 and the man 23 for a real commitment . I'll bow out ! Yup ! I'm old fashioned ! But back in my day ... out of wedlock babies and divorces were not as rampid as today .

 

[RD]

Grammy, you know I have nothing but respect for you but I do have to argue one thing . . . Just one.

Why are numbers so important? Why is 18 a magical number, bringing bountiful maturity and the responsibility to have sex? Would it really be any different with a 17 year old?

I do think that teens can fall in love without it just being lust and hormones. But I guess that's a completely different debate

 

[GSDluver4lyfe]

Grammy, you know I have nothing but respect for you but I do have to argue one thing . . . Just one.

Why are numbers so important? Why is 18 a magical number, bringing bountiful maturity and the responsibility to have sex? Would it really be any different with a 17 year old?

I do think that teens can fall in love without it just being lust and hormones. But I guess that's a completely different debate

I completely agree!!!

 

[tessa_s212]

I agree with you Grammy. With very few exceptions, teenage sex is a no-no. (But then again, I have just simply been born into the wrong generation it seems.. )

 

[FoxyWench]

Do you think it is a good or bad think?
it is a GOOD thing...think about it, it wouldnt be pleasureable (when done right) if it was a BAD thing no matter what religion or belife system you are lol.

Should it be saved for Marrige?
personally i think NOT.
why? well its a matter of compatibility, to find out after the notts been tied that you 2 are NOT compatible in bed cant make marriage easier now can it?!
you wouldnt buy a house without looking at it, and you woudnt buy a car without a test drive.
to marry someone and make it last you 2 should be as compatible as possible, and sex is a big part of that compatibility.
i do think however the inolved parties should wait untill they know eachother well and are both comfortable and i also agree with waiting untill after 18 because at ANY age its sometimes difficult to diferentiate between love and lust, but at a younger age than that the "love" is USUALLY puppy love that fades or twists as you leave your highschool life and "grow up"

If You have never had it, do you looks forward?
N/A but i did.