He will deal with the consequences of his neglect in this situation, if he's truly so self centered that he can't bring himself to offer me one bit of emotional support when I need it more than I ever have. I'm not doing anything now. Just leaving him alone, letting him make his own choices. Currently his own choices reflect his selfishness. I hope that changes, but if it doesn't, I don't know if I can continue to live my life with him.
I am not an emotional person. I don't need to cry and kick and scream at a person every time something bad happens to me. I like to be left alone for my meltdowns. I am not needy. It'd just be nice to know that the person I always stand by would be on my side sometimes.