No, I didn't think you were being rude and hopefully that post didn't come off as snarky, just stressed.
He's only been gone three months now, and that is starting to wear on me, too, as his long distance communication SUCKS (and always has) and I'm trying to not let it bother me while at the same time trying to find a happy medium with him that doesn't leave him annoyed and me frustrated.
All in all...this month sucks, and it needs to be November NOW, plz kthx.