Ok, So I'm sharing a studio with a guy right now. He's lovely and all - but he's rather girlfriend obsessed at the moment, like, really. It's 3 AM right now and they are getting all lovey-dovey while cooking in the kitchenette.
I always turn off my light or try and be as quiet as I can while on my laptop while he's sleeping or resting. He does the same when I'm sleeping too and he's up - but factor in his girlfriend and....gosh, it's all loud, giggly, and just very....I'm not sleepy right now but this is just....disruptive. I don't mind it at civilized hours but I usually like being left alone in the night...the price of having a roommate, I know, I know. She's very friendly with me but has displayed cattiness on the odd occasion - I'm passive about it and just walk away if she gets worked up about something ('Ok, sure', 'Whatever', 'Cool, go ahead - I'm headed out anyway' etc)
He has her over rather often - I try and playfully encourage him to take her out/spend the night at his families house with her etc.
How would one go about setting guidelines/raising concerns of this type with a roommate? Don't get me wrong - he's a smashing fellow, easy going, upbeat, and very relaxed - but this is abit much....
I always turn off my light or try and be as quiet as I can while on my laptop while he's sleeping or resting. He does the same when I'm sleeping too and he's up - but factor in his girlfriend and....gosh, it's all loud, giggly, and just very....I'm not sleepy right now but this is just....disruptive. I don't mind it at civilized hours but I usually like being left alone in the night...the price of having a roommate, I know, I know. She's very friendly with me but has displayed cattiness on the odd occasion - I'm passive about it and just walk away if she gets worked up about something ('Ok, sure', 'Whatever', 'Cool, go ahead - I'm headed out anyway' etc)
He has her over rather often - I try and playfully encourage him to take her out/spend the night at his families house with her etc.
How would one go about setting guidelines/raising concerns of this type with a roommate? Don't get me wrong - he's a smashing fellow, easy going, upbeat, and very relaxed - but this is abit much....