My Dilemma (*exaggeration*)

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Okay well I brought this up in the chat room the other day, and I realized I really need advice on this, I should've made this thread earlier!

Well we bought Charlie when he was about three months or so, and we let him into our house a lot. The first day we got him, we kept him in my room (in a little doggie house thing...er...um...its made of plastic...and...) and we would just let him go outside without a leash, and he would always just stay around the house and not do anything bad or anything. He always came back at night.

But then, we took him over to our neighbor's house one night where they have a dog (who's name is Daisy) and they were playing outside of the fence they had. We just went inside and talked (SNORE) and then when we went back outside, they weren't there. (Well actually my parents were at our other neighbor's house.) So my neighbor and I rode in the golf cart towards the highway because we heard some honking of horns and then we saw Charlie running across the highway towards us and Daisy waiting on the other side. Charlie made it and ran back to the house. So after that, we started putting him on a leash which I feel really bad about, because now all he does all day is sleep, lie down, and not really do anything. Our schedule is this: We feed him in the morning inside the garage and wait for about 20 minutes. After that, he is usually done with his food so we take him outside and put him on the chain (the chain is about 10 to 15 feet long). Then we put the chain on the dog run, and he basically sits there the whole day except when we give him his walk and play with him. Then, at night, or when it rains, we bring him back into the garage and leave him there until the storm is over or until the morning. Occasionally we tie his chain to the front yard so it wouldn't be too boring for him.

I really wish I could bring him inside...my mom doesn't let me because she thinks he sheds too much, smells bad, and she knows he is hyper and she also thinks his nails should be cut...and I don't think she is too keen on bringing him inside anyway since she thinks she might be allergic to dogs. But really, if Charlie keeps doing the same old same old schedule every single day, he is not going to really enjoy anything. We were thinking of getting a fence, but he is capable of jumping out of our garage window, so I think he is capable of jumping over an average sized fence. But if we get a tall fence, it will block out the view we have in front of our house (Our front yard is 1 acre and our backyard is just a little smaller).

So...the question...WHAT SHOULD I DO? I don't want Charlie's life to be pointless.
 

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Well it sucks when you are young and you don't have any control over situations like that. First I would really try to convince your mom to let him come inside. If that doesn't work, try to get him a fence so that he can at least roam around back there. And maybe a nice cozy dog house or something. But above all, try to spend as much time working with him if you can. Play frisbee or ball with him, spend time teaching him new tricks, maybe take him on more walks, take him to the park. There are lots of fun things you can do.
 

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Yeah...I should...I would LOVE to play frisbee with him, but I don't think he could do it very well with a chain on.
 

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Yeah...I should...I would LOVE to play frisbee with him, but I don't think he could do it very well with a chain on.
Do you think he would run off if you were right there with him?
 

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Im not sure about this but....We used temporary fencing for a few of our cattle to mow the weeds around the house. These fences consisted of one strand of hot wire, a power supply and a bunch of 3/8" diameter fence poles. It is the cheapest fence I could think of and worked better than any thing else. It also didnt block view and could easily be stepped over---ROFL except for my mom but thats another story.

We had a collie and a malamute at the time that each got hit with this type of fence one time, thats all they needed. Im sure they could have jumped or crawled under it as it was only one strand about knee high. They didnt like to be anywhere near that fence. I have tested that fence on accident many times and its unpleasant but not really dangerous (to humans and cattle) check with someone who knows if it could harm a dog. Maybe an answer.
 

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Without the chain? Yeah. First he will run to our neighbor's house, and if you try to catch him, he will run away even more. If you call to him or bring a treat, he will just stay away and wag his tail just like we were playing tag. So...I dunno. Maybe I could just not hold the chain so that if he decides to run away, it would be easier to catch him.
 

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Without the chain? Yeah. First he will run to our neighbor's house, and if you try to catch him, he will run away even more. If you call to him or bring a treat, he will just stay away and wag his tail just like we were playing tag. So...I dunno. Maybe I could just not hold the chain so that if he decides to run away, it would be easier to catch him.
lol... he sounds funny. Skye will sometimes do that to me... usually he is just trying to get me to chase him around the table. :p
 

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Could you put a fence just in the back yard or try an invisible fence?

Honestly though, the dog's room is with the family, so if your mom won't let him inside, I would find him a new home. Sorry to be blunt, I know it's not your fault, it's something that should have been thought of before getting the dog though.
 

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Could you put a fence just in the back yard or try an invisible fence?

Honestly though, the dog's room is with the family, so if your mom won't let him inside, I would find him a new home. Sorry to be blunt, I know it's not your fault, it's something that should have been thought of before getting the dog though.

Aw... I don't know about that Fran... It sounds to me like he is really loved at his current home... he might not be so lucky some place else, even if he does get to live inside. I think they should just try to work something out.
 

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Oh I'm sure the OP loves the dog! It's just that being chained outside all day is not a good life for a dog.
 

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Well I have thought about that...but I really don't want to get rid of him. :( So I'm trying to persuade my mom to let him go inside. I'll have a good long talk with my parents tonight and see if we can do something.
 

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I'm sorry for you and your dog ! Try to let him in your bedroom at night and get some kind of fenced in area so he doesn't have to be chained. This is no life for your pal to go from garage to a chain. Promise to brush and get some Lambert Kay Fresh N Clean shampoo....they smell great for weeks !
 

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good luck.this sounds like someone i know. shes 14 years old and has a yellow lad.the lab stays in the back room (seperate from the house) until the girl comes home,even then i don't know how long the dog is let out of the room as he isn't aloud in the house because her mum says that he smells etc.

from what i know,like her mum could have decided to let the dog live inside,from what i know thats not fair on the dog.

i think that they arn't going to give him away and are just carrying on as it is.
 

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I'm sorry for you and your dog ! Try to let him in your bedroom at night and get some kind of fenced in area so he doesn't have to be chained. This is no life for your pal to go from garage to a chain. Promise to brush and get some Lambert Kay Fresh N Clean shampoo....they smell great for weeks !
Thanks!! Yeah, we need a fence...but aren't they expensive? And I told my mom that I wanted him in my room when I sleep at night, but the conversation kind of turned from a regular conversation into an argument. So I just need a part of the yard fenced in? I will have to think about that...and I will look for that shampoo. :D

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention, we have a leash law... :(
 

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Well I have thought about that...but I really don't want to get rid of him. :( So I'm trying to persuade my mom to let him go inside. I'll have a good long talk with my parents tonight and see if we can do something.
Well good luck with that. I hope it works out!
 

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Well it turned out to be a kind of argument... :(

But they promised that they could let me have him sleep in my room once in a while...and they said they will definitely try to fence the yard as soon as they have the money. I am going to start to try and raise money for it...I'll have to put off on collecting Pirates of the Caribbean stuff for awhile. :)) :( Happy and sad at the same time...) So anyway, THAT's a start. They still don't like the idea of letting him inside though.

Do any of you have suggestions for the cheapest way of fencing a 1 acre yard? :(
 

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Well if he gets a fenced in yard, a nice doggie house, you spend lots of time with him, and he can come inside sometimes that's a good start. Maybe you can start squeezing out more and more time with him indoors. Brush him every day and hair won't get all over the house. Then maybe your mom will let up about it. If he smells, offer to give him a bath every month or something. And cut his nails too, if she has a problem with that.
 

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I dont know how to cut his nails...I only saw the vet do it, lol...yeah I'll try to work really hard but oh crap I dunno where his hair brush is.
 

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When I was your age I had a dog, my parents would not allow in the house. It is not your fault though. But that dog I had went with me everywhere. When I got my drivers license, she was my first passsenger.
Even though she was on a cable with a pulley, that dog lived a very good life, you just have to make the effort.
Just try to include the dog in your everyday activities.

10 or 15 foot chain in my opinion is really no room to move at all, another alternative (but still not the best) would be to install an over head cable with a pulley and attach your 15 foot chain onto that. At the least the dog could run the length of the cable, which you could make really long. And if you could bring the dog in to sleep with you at night, that would make it better too.

A dog that has no interaction all day, will always be hyper when they get attention. Let your mom know, that if the dog was a "part" of the family, he/she would not be nearly as hyper, as the dog seems when not getting the attention he/she needs.

A fence would be a better alternative than the cable/chain/pulley thing, but if your parents don't do a fence soon, then it would be better than what is happening now.
And you really don't need to fence in a whole acre for a dog if money is tight, a portion of that would work out good for you.
Good Luck, and let us know....
Julie.
 

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