I'm leaving because he won't. I found the dating website yesterday, went home for the night thinking maybe it wasn't as bad as i thought to find that all this morning. He will literally hover over top of me, didn't want to let my aunt in our house and it's just not worth it to stay. He has control over everything in that house. Money, the car, works for the cable company so can cut off the land line and any access to the outside world etc. I'm going back to Vancouver so we will have five hours away from each other.
I'm going to the doctor asap. I've been through a cheating, lying boyfriend before (Briggs' father) and luckily i got out of that STD free. I'm hoping at the very worst i have something curable but honestly I am trying to mentally prepare myself for the worst because lets face it... these are cheap hookers. I highly doubt he wore protection because he didn't care and think to not do it. So why the heck would he wrap it up?
I have Briggs and I have Bandit and that's all I care about. I'm put in a bit of an awkward situation though as he keeps insisting he is going to pay child support for Briggs. I get a grand total of nothing and am in no contact with my other ex yet I feel incredibly uncomfortable taking his money. While I know he's being serious I feel like that could be just one more thing to stay in contact over. He's obviously going to have to pay child support for the 2nd baby so i dont know if I should just let him pay for Briggs too so I dont have to deal with both my idiot exes.