I took my three in the kitchen to eat. I brought a pan out for sawyer and Virgo to share. Virgo decided she was going in the kitchen. I decided she was not. SHe made push to get in through my baricade, and i took her by the base of her rudderlike tail and dragged her all the way back (all of three feet) to my desk where i pushed her down on the cushion and told her STAY. SHe is snoring away at my feet now. SHe will mind me...and then she will respect me. WHen i picked her up at Zoomers she was kinda upset. I put her in the backseat and SAwyer in the front with the air conditioning. VIrgo laid down and i put my hand back where she promplty laid her head down on my palm and did the suck swallow mouth swallow that i know means so much..safety, comfort, friend, at peace. I think she might not look at me like i am nuts from now on when i tell her to mind me. IF there is one thing i understand in this life it is a lab.