Best\favorite shampoo fir curly and frizzy hair? My current system is not working either. I end up with tangled frizz one day and flat, greasy looking hair the next. I suck at being a girl.
I don't use sbampoo which is probably one of the best things I've done for my hair. My hair used to be a poofy, wavy, ball of frizz. I use dirt cheap conditioner to clean my scalp-right now I'm using VO5 Moisture Milks, I massage it in and rinse just like I would with a shampoo, but it doesn't have the harsh cleansing agents. This one also doesn't have silicones in it, which sometimes can only be removed with a shampoo, otherwise they just build up on your hair.
Then I use a moisturizing conditioner, I've been using Shea Moisture for a while. Target often has it on sale. Put that in, rinse. Finally I throw in a small amount of conditioner as a leave-in. Also, no brushing. Sometimes I will gently go through it with a wide toothed comb but most often I just use my fingers.
This is what works for me at least! Moisture moisture moisture and treating it very gently.