For anyone who knows whats going on with my little family

[mypy]

I know Smkie has told some of you what happen to me. I wanted to thank you for all you have said. For the ones who don't know whats going on. My husband Daniel and our roommate Norman are missing. Daniel took all the money we had about three hundred dollars. We were being evicted from the place we were living. The boys had taken a load of stuff to the storage unit we had rented and no one has seen them since. I had to move an entrie house with no car and no money. My best friend came out at three o'clock in the morning even though she had to be at school at six. She brought her brother and with their help I was able to get my son's cloths and toys. I lost alot of stuff like my son's crib but without thier help and the help from my family I didn't lose as much as I could have. What is the worsed thing about this whole mess was that I didn't even know my marrage was in trouble. Luckly my son is young enough that this will be easier for him to handle.Thats about the whole of it. So to every one thank you for the kindness you have shown me.

 

[Debi]

I'm so sorry, Mypy. (((((HUGS))))) stay strong.

 

[Squealer]

Keep your spirits up!​

 

[oc_spirit]

OMG so sorry to hear about this!!! Hope things work out for you!

 

[Renee750il]

Mypy, you still have so many people who love you and love Jory. There is never any real consolation for such a gross betrayal, but there are friends and family who will surround you and Jory with love and knowing that and thinking about them will help you through the really painful times late at night when you have nothing to do but brood. ((((HUGS))))

 

[mypy]

the really painful times late at night when you have nothing to do but brood.

Thats the really hard time because I'm usually a night owl but no matter what time I came to bed he would curl up to me. It was really the only time we could cuddle.

 

[Zoom]

Snuggle with Jory instead.

My thoughts and any help I can give are with all of you and always available.

 

[juliefurry]

Oh, I'm so sorry. I know how hard this must be for you. Feel free to pm me anytime you want. I am going through problems of my own but I can always lend a friendly ear if you need to vent I am very good at that.

 

[filarotten]

Mypy, baby, I am so very sorry. You really are going through a difficult time in your life. But, with friends, family and your child you will make it thru. No matter how rough it seems, you have to look to the future of your child and yourself. Maybe I didn't go through what you are, but my first husband died when I was 27 and left me with an 18 mo old son. You can, and will make it thru this. As my dad has always told me, "consider it a stepping stone to better and greater things in your future". Have faith in yourself and you can conquer anything that comes your way.
If you ever need to talk or vent, feel free to pm me. Big, Big (((((Hugs)))) Give your child a big hug, lots of snuggles through the night and have faith, every cloud does have a silver lining believe it or not. You just have to get through the darkness and find it, it isn't always an easy task, but if you set your mind to succeed you will.

 

[Ash47]

Great advice filarotten.
mypy, I am really sorry about everything going on. I don't have a clue how you feel, but I imagine it's not a good feeling. I send hugs and prayers your way.

 

[smkie]

I sent her to bed with Mary to snuggle. Mary knows just how to make a person feel loved, she is a dog of great compassion.

 

[Giny]

Aw sweety, your world must feel upside down at the moment. It's hard to see it now but you will feel better with time. It's during these moments where friends and family are a God sent. ((HUGS))

 

[mypy]

Smkie and I both had a talk with with my duaghter yesterday. She seem to be handling it well. She just say she misses him and hopes he comes home. I told her she would always have me. that cheered her up. She thinks he is mad at us for some reason. I told her that he would never be mad at her or Jory. She seem to except that. We will all get through this.

 

[Martine]

mypy I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how hard it must be, but my thoughts are with you.

 

[smkie]

Guess who showed up today. ..she loves him so, it was painful, but in a way i was happy for her too..she takes her marraige vows seriously and is very proud of her little family, she wanted him to come back and i guess in the long run that is all that matters. Like GG said if she started dating again then you have to worry about the new man and the baby..at least we KNOW Daniel is harmless in the violent dept..useless but harmless. Jory loves his daddy so i am going to leave it at that. He will forever be rat ******* in my mind. He gave Jess all the money right off the bat, she will have the upper hand from now on and that ins't such a bad thing either. She tried not to look happy but she really coulnd't hide it, she practically flew down the road when i said your husband is down the street..coming on foot.

 

[Barb04]

Mypy, I care about you & Jory very much and hope that Daniel's return will be a turn for the best. My thoughts are with all of you that things turn out well. You are a stronger person for all that is going on and you will survive.

 

[smkie]

Here is a picture of my baby girl all grown up..she is standing in a smoke bomb so that is what makes the white smoke http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f240/smkie/smkie/aaron and jessica/jesssmokycopy.jpg
I will say this for her, she is more forgiving then i could be
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f240/smkie/smkie/aaron and jessica/jd1copy.jpg

 

[Renee750il]

Both photos are beautiful, Smkie, but I do love the first one best. Mypy looks so happy and carefree.

 

[mypy]

yes I am happy he is back but I am being carefull. The way i look at it everyone (depending on what they did) deserves(sp?) a second chance. He has never done anything like this before and hopefully won't again. The fact that he came back to face what he had done count for something. So we will see how it goes.

 

[Jules]

Wow....well, I am glad that he is back and at least you are able to ask questions and kick his butt.
It's easy as a person who has nothing to do with the situation to say that I wouldn't take him back... Being in your situation, especially with a child, makes things difficult.

It's good that you are being careful. I would think about empowering him financially, honestly...at least don't give him access to your savings at all.
Have you thought about marriage counseling?

Good luck to you...I hope everything works out.

Julia