Do your dogs give off the right impression?

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I was out browsing in a clothing store with Cohen a few weeks back. Cohen was being really well behaved, she'd stay out of people's way and listened really well. Quite a few people came up to her to pat her, and she tolerated it but couldn't care less for the attention. I had someone tell me that it was alright, they knew what it was like to have a shy dog.

Shy dog? Hell no. Just ambivalent.
 

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Yea no, most people don't get to see the real Ivan. Out in public he wants to just go he hates sitting around. He is on a mission and wants to complete it. But is quite willing to meet new people provided HE gets to choose who it is. At home he wants no one here and is quite animated about it.

I had a guy one time tell me he wasn't much of a watch/guard dog. Then he didn't believe me when I told him, he is, so much so I know when someone shuts their car door. I also know when there is someone new at the neighbors house. Nothing gets by that dog.
 

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Mine act the same pretty much. Eden is an attention *****, Kastle is aloof and will tolerate pets while staring at me and Limit is excited about life. They act the same at home LOL
 

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Depends on the dog.

Kim -- Yes and no. She comes off to people as a total love who adores them. And she is social and does love being pet, so that's true, but the reality is she wants to be petted on her terms and to control the interaction. So she tells them exactly where to pet her, how long, etc. and with her position and eye prevents other dogs from usurping her new human kingdom. And so the new person (victim?) goes on scratching and scratching, blissfully believing that they are still the masters of their own will and wondering why their own dog is sitting 10 feet away looking sad.

Webster -- Again yes and no. He adores people but he adores food more. So when he meets a new person he climbs all up in their grill and cuddles them and basically makes them feel like a king. As he does so he's scoping out their hands and all their pockets and will if possible jump on their lap to scan nearby table surfaces and such. All while being sure to respond to their petting and voice so they don't notice his real goal. If they do have food he continues to be their New Best Friend. If not then he suddenly leaves them cold without so much as a by-your-leave and makes sweet love to the next person...at least until they run out of food ;) But he's not nearly as subtle as Kim and most dog people totally call him on it. The general public is a bit more vulnerable.

Mira is probably the most honest of the three. Because she will mostly just bounce around and look at me and ignore them. If she does end up interacting she'll lean in for a rub but usually while facing me so they feel like I'm getting credit for all their hard work. Which is probably true. She's sweet and a love but she doesn't really care who they are or that they are there...it's not like she's barely tolerating them or anything as she does enjoy the pets and talks...it's just something to do until I do something that we can do together.

Most people prefer Kim's & Webster's lies to Mira's hard truth lol


All three reflect how they are at home...Kim's a naughty control freak who really does enjoy social interaction but enjoys ruling the universe more. Webster really is a wirey little guy who loves social interaction but loves food more than life. And Mira really is a high-energy goofball whose world revolves around her mum. The only real difference is that they tend to think Webster is the highest energy because he will spring around and walk on his hind legs and in general be a total nut (the dog who was a therapy dog...I swear he's a different dog around wheelchairs, walkers, and IVs). At home he's high energy but Mira is the highest. But since the girls come across as high energy too, I think, it's more a matter of degrees than true opposite impressions.
 

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I think Cali does sometimes.. people usually get the idea of "oh my goodness! She's so sweet.. and just so people oriented!" or you can tell they're thinking "She's completely and totally crazy and untrained".

The lateral is the one that annoys me because Cali actually is quite well trained.. she knows quite a few tricks and does learn pretty quick. She just has a very outgoing personality and has a relatively short attention span and a one track mind. Put all those together while she sees new people, or even new dogs? She loses most focus on me and focuses on the dogs and people that she'd absolutely love to meet. It's really annoying.. but I'd much rather have a dog who loves everyone than absolutely hates everyone.

Moses? He comes off as really shy and very well-behaved, which he usually is. Although when we're at home, or just out on the lawn, he'll run right up to everyone (and has actually scared people.. even though he's the nicest, most tolerant dog around).
 

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I was out browsing in a clothing store with Cohen a few weeks back. Cohen was being really well behaved, she'd stay out of people's way and listened really well. Quite a few people came up to her to pat her, and she tolerated it but couldn't care less for the attention. I had someone tell me that it was alright, they knew what it was like to have a shy dog.

Shy dog? Hell no. Just ambivalent.
I get that ALL the time with Mia! 'Oh she's so shy!' No not really, she just has no use for you. Really, I've had a shy dog before and she's not shy.
 

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If you're in public and someone is meeting your dog for the first time, do they get a good feel for them?

Why i'm asking is because my two come off totally backwards when people meet them at first. Summer is so outgoing that she's usually bouncing all over the place, tail going 100 mph, grinning and spinning, going through her tricks, etc. Mia just stands there and ignores people, :lol-sign:

I get sooo many comments about how Mia is SO much calmer than Summer and I want to laugh. I was at petsmart today and the girl that was working the register actually said 'Wow this one got all the personality, didn't she?' No one ever buys that it's actually Mia that is more active. They always think she's a calm, meek little thing and that Summer is the most active dog ever. At home, Summer is lazy as can be and Mia is the one that can hardly sit still.
I get the same backwards impression with Keeva vs. Macky in public, since Macky is much more OMG I LOVE YOU and much OMG THE PET STORE? YAY! THE CAR??? YAY!!! etc. Keeva's not interested in new people really, and doesn't get all worked up just because, but has tons of energy and drive, and is very bossy. My grandma (who once pitched a fit because Macky jumped on her as puppy, and doesn't really like dogs at all) told me how she wanted to take Keeva home because she was just soooo quiet and laid back - not like MACKY. :rofl1: :rofl1: :rofl1: I was like, "Umm, she's just not very excited by new people, but she's extremely energetic bordering on hyper and unbelievably loud on a day to day basis." She refused to believe me. :rolleyes:
 

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Pentti - Yes. He's a total lovebug who just wants pets, and he's also really polite. He can get a bit rambunctious around food/toys as he loves both, but he's that way at home as well. Training time = loud.

Bubbles - Sort of. She's also in to being pet, but she's a lot more calm in the outside world than in the house.

Kimma - Not really. She's well trained, but not well behaved. So in public we get complimented a lot, but she's generally a nutcase at home LOL. However if we are out long enough (or if I'm stopped talking to someone while we were walking) she might let out a bark or two - then people who may have been asking a thousand questions about the breed are suddenly turned off to them hahaha. She's also more aloof than the other two, but once she knows you she's all about. And guests in my house are greeted with leg weaves and her rubbing herself all over them like a cat LOL.
 

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Chloe goes bonkers in public and people always ask me "How can you live with that!?" They don't believe me when I say she just lays around and sleeps at home.
 

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I've had a few "Oh my gosh, what kind of dog is that?! A cattle dog? I gotta get one for my kids!"
Kailey is a huge marshmallow and decently behaved when we go out. I think most average families could handle owning a Kailey clone as long as they did a bit of reading on positive reinforcement, socialized well, and had a place to let her run.
But any cattle dog? Please, no!
I guess that's more "does your dog give off the right impression of their breed", though.
 

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Very few people actually get to meet the real Dance. Mainly because she can be shy with people so unless you've met her a few times, she hardly shows any of her actual personality. She just barks and hides. So people think she's a rescue, or that I must beat her, or that she's yappy. Or alternatively, she comes across as the most naturally well behaved, easiest dog in the world and fools people into thinking that all Tollers would make the perfect family dog for them. Nobody gets to see her mischevious, ever so happy and full of joy side. Which is how she is most of the time.

The Dobes also give a false impression of behaviour. Keira especially is virtually bombproof in public, doesn't react poorly to anything, totally ignores other dogs, etc. Combine that with the fact that everyone thinks she's a puppy, they think Dobermans must just be the easiest puppies to raise haha. I quickly tell them that's not the case and tell them how much time and training is put into my dogs. Keira

Depending on his mood, Ripley can either come across as the easiest, sweetest dog in the world or the most hyper, noisy, pushy dog in the world. Mostly it's the former more often than the latter. But in certain environments (training class or vet clinic, where his mind explodes by being surrounded by other dogs even after three years of constantly training and being around them), he probably comes off as quite obnoxious on occassion. He's whiny, moany, bouncy, unfocused, etc. Not always, and I am generally able to get him back to me, but he still as those moments where people are like "omg, how do you live with him?".

But all in all, I think my dogs all generally come across as very easy, well behaved dogs and people don't realize that they don't just naturally come that way.
 

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The boys are pretty similar out in public. They don't really like interacting with strangers and both do the herding dog thing of scanning the horizon for whatever it is they're looking for. :p They'll both duck away from hands they don't want touching them, which does cause people to tell me how "shy" they are, and how I need to work on that with them. It's hard for me to say "um, they're not shy, they just don't like you/have any use for you" :p

Enzo and Indy are the opposite. Enzo LOOOOVES people. And she makes eyes at them, dances, wooo wooooos at them, and just in general is a nutcase. Indy will still fling herself at people, so they generally think that she likes them, but she's scoping them out for a food pouch. :p No food, no attention after that, lol, unless you have a tug toy
 

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They are both generally people whores in public. :rofl1:
Except with certain people the below applies. Especially people with super rude, pushy body language.
They'll both duck away from hands they don't want touching them, which does cause people to tell me how "shy" they are, and how I need to work on that with them. It's hard for me to say "um, they're not shy, they just don't like you/have any use for you" :p
Lily is so transparent and loves attention and is a giant food *****. She is a huge show off with people whenever I take her to some public thing where there are lots people. She loves working the crowd. Princess drama queen is an apt title. And yes she's like that at home too... always drama, drama, drama... :rofl1:

Scout's a little more low key, she's just happy to be doing what I'm doing. :p
 

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No, Violet is crazy around strangers/guests. She cries/pulls-if she's on leash /jumps/etc. Normally she's actually fairly laid back as long as she gets her exercise.
 

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We get the "well behaved" comments a lot, because they actually listen to us and people seem amazed at that...lol... but the dogs do not give off a calm vibe in public, usually they are wired and whiny so in that respect people realize they are high energy, but I think a lot assume they are just 'well behaved' by nature and hours of training has nothing to do with it.
 

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Unfortunately, no in most cases, particularly with Ma'ii. People see how high energy he is and seem to equate that to a dog that has zero training and is a general terror. So when I tell him to "sit, stay, lay down" and he immediately stops what he's doing and does it, their expressions are priceless x3

In most situations people get Charlotte. She's such a gentle, mellow, love bug and gives off a very positive vibe- with people. The problem is people see her this way, and automatically assume she's that way with other dogs too, and she could never be mean or nasty to anything. Wrong. Give her one second, and that sweet, mellow marshmallow that was just curled up in your lap, snuggling you will be latched onto your dog, ripping off pieces of it. Not a joke.
 

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People do tend to think my dogs are very calm because they are well trained and generally behave well in public. Calm definitely isn't the word... "good dog" is.
This is sooo my two!
new person "Omigosh they're so calm! They're perfectly well behaved."
and this is me: ":rofl1: are you kidding?!"
But, yea, I have worked with them a lot, and I have high expectations of them.... especially in public. I don't want to be that person who causes everyone else's dogs to not be allowed in public :eek: lol


As far as personality, Bailey appears to be a bubbly friendly everyone-look-at-me dog, but if someone approaches her head on, or unexpectedly she darts off behind me, she can be shy and doesn't like confrontation. She does walk next to be very bouncy and happy go lucky, heeling nicely, attentive to me and yet observant of everyone else and butt wiggling at them, so I can see why it confuses people.

With Maddie, she's more of a what you see is what you get :D She loves everybody (and if she doesn't I've learned to be careful with that person!!), she's excited but not over the top, friendly but not annoyingly so, and pretty laid back - takes everything in stride.
 

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Gonzo is MUCH nicer to strangers out in public than he is at home, luckily. :) He'll rub against and lick anyone who comes up to pet him... at home, he's wary and takes a while to trust people. So I would say he gives off a much better impression than what is reality.

Fozzie is always himself! He's less affectionate out in public, with other people to see and things to smell, than he is at home but he greets every stranger more excitedly than he greets me. People think he's the coolest dog ever no matter where they meet him.
 

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I think Quinn gives off a fairly accurate first impression. She may seem a little silly at first because she is so friendly and loves 90% of the people she meets, but within about 5 minutes she's settled back down and is happy just lying down and smiling at people when they pass, which is totally her LOL.
 

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Not. Even. Close.

I always hear, "Aw! He's so well-behaved!" / "He must be a shy boy." :rofl1: My mom nicknamed him the tornado. He randomly starts running around like crazy in the house, carries blankets like Linus, and could carry enough sticks to keep a fire going for days.

Sometimes he acts like he doesn't even notice people, other times he's terrified and either barking or skittish and silent. We went to PetSmart just yesterday, and the cashier went around the counter to give him treats, and he jumped back. At home, he's a VACUUM. There is no treat he doesn't like. When I offered him the treat in the parking lot, he nearly took my arm with it.

He's the most playful, loving, and happy boy at home, but he still needs some work outside the house. Walks have improved drastically :)hail:) with lots of positive reinforcement and happy voices (I say YAY whenever we don't try to eat passerby's and bunnies, etc.).
 

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