It looks like we're developing an inventory of products people like. Before I wrote this post I had tried Tropiclean detangler that has zillions of Amazon recommendations, but didn't seem to work for us.
I've just ordered Cowboy Magic from Amazon and that also has zillions of recommendations--the interesting thing is that many of those recommendations were for a variety of species--horses, dogs, cats, grandchildren and adult humans from different races with amazingly frizzie hair! More later after I've tried the Cowboy stuff! Kaye