Cloned-Dog Owner Denies She is Actually Mormon Sex Kidnapper

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Actually sex kidnapper is probably more accurate...
Remember men need to be enjoying what they are doing/excited to have sex... otherwise it stays a bit more limp... so he would have had to have been enjoying/ok with it at least on some level, in order for it to really work out well for her.
I'm afraid it is not reported if it was "good for her."
 

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Actually sex kidnapper is probably more accurate...
Remember men need to be enjoying what they are doing/excited to have sex... otherwise it stays a bit more limp... so he would have had to have been enjoying/ok with it at least on some level, in order for it to really work out well for her.
So it's not rape if it's against his protests and his religion?

You can be turned on and still say no, Sharky. :rolleyes: And it sounds like that is exactly what he did.
 

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So it's not rape if it's against his protests and his religion?

You can be turned on and still say no, Sharky. :rolleyes: And it sounds like that is exactly what he did.
While an unwanted erection can occur it's not exactly common in the mindset of fear etc. that normally goes with having been kidnapped.

And I know from past experience when I'm completely un-interested for one reason or another... I don't rise to the occasion. (although maybe you've had different experiences with the number of erections you've surely had... :rolleyes:).

It's alot more likely the situation is more like Lilatvia describes in that he claimed rape afterwards to avoid the religious reprocussions.

She did kidnap him and all that so she had definately done things that were illegal and stupid but I think he's probably much less a victim then he claims in that the only real crime part of this was the kidnapping.
 

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While an unwanted erection can occur it's not exactly common in the mindset of fear etc. that normally goes with having been kidnapped.

And I know from past experience when I'm completely un-interested for one reason or another... I don't rise to the occasion. (although maybe you've had different experiences with the number of erections you've surely had... :rolleyes:).

It's alot more likely the situation is more like Lilatvia describes in that he claimed rape afterwards to avoid the religious reprocussions.

Note, that although I suspect he claimed outright rape later to avoid reprocussions, this WAS a sexual assault. I just think its possible (and the question was left open) whether he was entirely uncooperative when err . . . well, when it mattered. Which is not the same as saying that he was at all cool with it.
 

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Note, that although I suspect he claimed outright rape later to avoid reprocussions, this WAS a sexual assault. I just think its possible (and the question was left open) whether he was entirely uncooperative when err . . . well, when it mattered. Which is not the same as saying that he was at all cool with it.
No question... but they are two different things.
But that'd make it a sexual assault kidnapper which just isn't as fun to say :p
 

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While an unwanted erection can occur it's not exactly common in the mindset of fear etc. that normally goes with having been kidnapped.

And I know from past experience when I'm completely un-interested for one reason or another... I don't rise to the occasion. (although maybe you've had different experiences with the number of erections you've surely had... :rolleyes:).

It's alot more likely the situation is more like Lilatvia describes in that he claimed rape afterwards to avoid the religious reprocussions.

She did kidnap him and all that so she had definately done things that were illegal and stupid but I think he's probably much less a victim then he claims in that the only real crime part of this was the kidnapping.
But isn't that like saying it's not rape if the woman gets "wet" (sorry TMI). The body can respond and it can still be rape if it's not what you want.
 

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But isn't that like saying it's not rape if the woman gets "wet" (sorry TMI). The body can respond and it can still be rape if it's not what you want.
Agreed. The body can "want sex" for biological reasons while the actual person doesn't. Some women even orgasm during rape, but that doesn't mean they enjoy it or that it isn't rape. It's just the body going, "Oh, are we doing the reproduction thing now? I'd better orgasm." It is absolutely possible for men to be raped by women.
 

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But isn't that like saying it's not rape if the woman gets "wet" (sorry TMI). The body can respond and it can still be rape if it's not what you want.
No.. like I said you can have an unwanted erection... which would make it rape... it's simply not that common.
Although that could just be because fewer men get raped.

But yes if he had an unwanted one then yes it's rape... but that doesn't occur in all men or even all the time... so while it's possible the story was just as he told it and it's rape in which case Nolu is quite right about the name of the story... it's much less likely.

I'd think rape would also be harder to prove as it'd be one persons word vs another without as much evidence... which could all disappear if he has a shower.
 

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Agreed. The body can "want sex" for biological reasons while the actual person doesn't. Some women even orgasm during rape, but that doesn't mean they enjoy it or that it isn't rape. It's just the body going, "Oh, are we doing the reproduction thing now? I'd better orgasm." It is absolutely possible for men to be raped by women.
Don't remember saying it wasn't possible... I do remember saying it is possible just less likely then if the situation were reversed.
 

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That's erm, interesting? I agree that an erection does NOT mean it wasn't a rape/assault. Even little girls that are abused can experience orgasm, and that does not justify abusing it. The body responds to touch. That doesn't mean it isn't traumatic and unwanted.
 

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That's erm, interesting? I agree that an erection does NOT mean it wasn't a rape/assault. Even little girls that are abused can experience orgasm, and that does not justify abusing it. The body responds to touch. That doesn't mean it isn't traumatic and unwanted.

Um, i didn't post this to turn it into a conversation about women raping men. Women CAN rape men. In this case there was some question if that is what happened. Admittedly it happened in 1978, when women raping men was less accepted. So, we don't know. That's pretty much all there is to it.
 

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Note, that although I suspect he claimed outright rape later to avoid reprocussions, this WAS a sexual assault. I just think its possible (and the question was left open) whether he was entirely uncooperative when err . . . well, when it mattered. Which is not the same as saying that he was at all cool with it.
:hail:
 

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After seeing her picture, I have a hard time believing any 19 year old man would be "grinning" at the propect of..relations...with her.
 

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I also wanted to add that, personally, I find what allegedly happened repulsive and am sickened that people are laughing at it.

Would it be as funny if the victim was a buddhist monk? Or a Moslim woman? Or is it funny because the man was a Mormon missionary? If it was consensual, why would he bother reporting it in the first place if he was worried about religious repercussions?

It's hard enough that people say women who are raped were "asking for it", or that it was their fault for not taking better precautions against whatever coulda shoulda woulda happened....I think it's pretty dang brave of any man who has been sexually assaulted to come forth and name his attacker, because he's going to face all kinds of public ridicule and people doubting that he is telling the truth. And in this case, it wasn't just because of his gender, it was because of his religion too. :(

Sorry for the rant. This thread has just been making me sick to the stomach all day so I had to say something about it.
 

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I also wanted to add that, personally, I find what allegedly happened repulsive and am sickened that people are laughing at it.

Would it be as funny if the victim was a buddhist monk? Or a Moslim woman? Or is it funny because the man was a Mormon missionary? If it was consensual, why would he bother reporting it in the first place if he was worried about religious repercussions?

It's hard enough that people say women who are raped were "asking for it", or that it was their fault for not taking better precautions against whatever coulda shoulda woulda happened....I think it's pretty dang brave of any man who has been sexually assaulted to come forth and name his attacker, because he's going to face all kinds of public ridicule and people doubting that he is telling the truth. And in this case, it wasn't just because of his gender, it was because of his religion too. :(

Sorry for the rant. This thread has just been making me sick to the stomach all day so I had to say something about it.
I am NOT laughing at what happened to him. I'm laughing at the sheer surreality of Cloned-Dog Owner Denies She is Actually Mormon Sex Kidnapper. What happened isn't funny. The headline is. Its just so . . . as I said, its like something I pulled out of a hat while drunk. Raping Mormon Missionaries isn't funny. Cloned-dogs aren't very funny. The fact that the woman who just had the first commerical dog clone made is also possibily someone who 30 years about kidnapped a Mormon missionary for the purposes of forcing him to have sex with her is so strange that it IS funny. And, yes, Cloned-Dog Owner Denies being Buddist Monk Rapist, or Cloned Dog Owner DEnies being Catholic Priest Rapist, or Even Cloned-Dog Owner Denies Raping Muslim Woman would still be funny, in the . . "What a WIERD world we live in way." The fact that it was a Mormon Missionary only makes it funnier because women raping men is rare, and raping male Mormon missionaries is pretty darn rare to. Put together the cloned dog, the rapist woman and the missionary, and yes, its funny . . . but NOT because we are insensitive to what happened to that young man.

In fact, let me make that very clear, my fiance's sister is a devout Mormon, who went on a mission (they let girls do that now) and was nearly raped by a prowler in her hotel room. That is NOT funny. At all. It was even less funny that they wouldn't let her call her brother for a month. On the other hand, if it turned out that the man who almost raped her also was having is dog cloned, I would at the very least get a weird expression on my face and go "WTF?"


Nor did I suggest that it was consentual in the normal sense of the word. It is indisputed that he was kidnapped, and tied to a bed against his will. There is, in the article, reported that there is in fact some doubt about what exactly happened next. There is no doubt he was kiddnaped and sexually assulted, but there is some about whether he became, at any point, a willing participant. Frankly, I don't care, and when it happened, it is unlikely a rape charge had a snowballs chance in hell. But, I did observe that if, at some point, he went along with it . . . for whatever reason, if only to escape, or because of biology, or because he thought, "what the hell" he would certainly not say so. That was all I meant to imply. What she did was very, very wrong.
 
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I also wanted to add that, personally, I find what allegedly happened repulsive and am sickened that people are laughing at it.

Would it be as funny if the victim was a buddhist monk? Or a Moslim woman? Or is it funny because the man was a Mormon missionary? If it was consensual, why would he bother reporting it in the first place if he was worried about religious repercussions?

It's hard enough that people say women who are raped were "asking for it", or that it was their fault for not taking better precautions against whatever coulda shoulda woulda happened....I think it's pretty dang brave of any man who has been sexually assaulted to come forth and name his attacker, because he's going to face all kinds of public ridicule and people doubting that he is telling the truth. And in this case, it wasn't just because of his gender, it was because of his religion too. :(

Sorry for the rant. This thread has just been making me sick to the stomach all day so I had to say something about it.
I am Mormon, and I think it is most definitely NOT funny that a Mormon missionary was raped, but I also saw no indication that Lilavati or anyone else was laughing about that. I agree that it is really crazy that the woman accused of such a crime was perhaps found because she had her dog cloned, and that and the title of the article did make me laugh.
 

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I am Mormon, and I think it is most definitely NOT funny that a Mormon missionary was raped, but I also saw no indication that Lilavati or anyone else was laughing about that. I agree that it is really crazy that the woman accused of such a crime was perhaps found because she had her dog cloned, and that and the title of the article did make me laugh.
I didn't think Lilavati was laughing at it, but if you read the top half of the second page you will see what I mean.
 

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After seeing her picture, I have a hard time believing any 19 year old man would be "grinning" at the propect of..relations...with her.
The last article did say she was a former Miss Wyoming so apparently she wasn't bad looking at some point. She is downright scary in that puppy pic though, and it looks pretty obvious that she is the person that they think she is. Or maybe it's just a weird coincidence that she looks almost exactly like her.
 

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