Sorry this is obscenely long, but I need help...
I'm not sure if its been b/c of all the excitement going on lately (lots of new people around plus my sister's new baby...who of course is stealing lots of attn from Oakley), or maybe b/c his ear infection is bothering him, but today Oakley' aggression took a turn for the worse, and I just don't know what to do anymore.
I've tried reading through all the recommended posts, but I just haven't really found a method that seems realistic yet.
First, we went to the vet, who Oakley has always hated...he has to get muzzled b/c he growls & snaps at him, which he did today...
Then, the siding thing on my kitchen counter is broken (hard to explain)...anyways, there is this piece that is bendy & if you lift it up & then let it go, it makes a really loud snapping noise...this happened accidently as my aunt was walking by, and Oakley went NUTS. At first, it seemed playful, so my sister decided it would be funny to do it again. He once again seemed to react "playfully"..barking & tail wagging, but a little scared definitely. Anyways, hours went by, and my cousin was leaning on the counter around that area & Oakley FLIPPED out for NO reason...he snarled & snapped at her (something I have NEVER seen him do to someone he knows without any warning or any reason). SHe got really scared & we couldn't figure out what his issue is.
We then discovered that anytime we as much as touch the counter in that area he has this same aggressive reaction.
I got treats, and he took them perfectly...even when I put them right on that spot...no problem. 2 seconds later though, without the treats, he flipped out again, barking like crazy. Since my sister's baby was sleeping, she said we aren't allowed to "train" him right now...but I just don't know what to do tomorrow. I have Never seen such a reaction.
The problem with all the articles I've been trying to read before posting this is the following...
Oakley seems to have a "switch" that snaps on...and once its on, I have almost never been able to turn it off unless he is removed from the stimulus or vice versa. Now, this is great when this is possible, but this can't always be done. This applies to other dogs, "scary" objects & unknown people. This problem is escalated 100000x when he is on a leash or there is a barrier btwn him & the object/being held back.
Ex: Exterminator comes over...Oakley starts running to see him, but I stop him so he doesn't run up to him (since not everyone likes that...). He stops listening to his "stay" command, so I grab his collar...and the sh*t hits the fan...Oakley starts lunging/snarling/barking like a mad dog...scaring the crap outta the exterminator. Luckily, I happen to know that both the exterminator & Oakley have in fact met & have gotten along just fine...so the exterminator agrees to trust me & allow me to let him go...
Oakley happily runs up, sniffs him, wags his tail & licks him. Course I am aware I just rewarded his aggressive behavior, but I just don't know what else to do. The only other option (which we do a majority of the time), is locking him in another room. BUt the whole time he is barking & scratching at the door (which my parents are REALLY mad at). If i'm in the room with him, I can calm him down, so whenever this is possible, this is what we do.
Anyways, the point is, Oakley can turn on a dime when I tell him to "come" mid-squirrel chase (his favorite thing), but he cannot as much as sit once he freaks out at whatever the "scary" stimulus is.
The situation always turns into an incredibly nerve-racking scenario cause both me & the other person are scared he is going to bite...its loud & noisy, cause I am trying to command him over his barking (prob not good, but I don;t want to just stand there & make the other person think i'm not gonna do anything).
I've been giving Oakley massages to help calm him down...it works really well (did this after the counter-snapping incident)...until he comes across something excitable again. The second he walked back into the kitchen & saw someone touching the counter, he freaked back out. I also squat down next to him and stroke him while saying "calm" as soothing as I can (works great after the stimulus is removed).
I just think he is insanely tense, but have no clue how to calm him once his switch is on. And this behavior occurs whether or not he has just been on an hour long walk.
And yes, the counter has now been duct taped, so no one will accidentally snap it again!!!
help? please? Thanks!!
I'm not sure if its been b/c of all the excitement going on lately (lots of new people around plus my sister's new baby...who of course is stealing lots of attn from Oakley), or maybe b/c his ear infection is bothering him, but today Oakley' aggression took a turn for the worse, and I just don't know what to do anymore.
I've tried reading through all the recommended posts, but I just haven't really found a method that seems realistic yet.
First, we went to the vet, who Oakley has always hated...he has to get muzzled b/c he growls & snaps at him, which he did today...
Then, the siding thing on my kitchen counter is broken (hard to explain)...anyways, there is this piece that is bendy & if you lift it up & then let it go, it makes a really loud snapping noise...this happened accidently as my aunt was walking by, and Oakley went NUTS. At first, it seemed playful, so my sister decided it would be funny to do it again. He once again seemed to react "playfully"..barking & tail wagging, but a little scared definitely. Anyways, hours went by, and my cousin was leaning on the counter around that area & Oakley FLIPPED out for NO reason...he snarled & snapped at her (something I have NEVER seen him do to someone he knows without any warning or any reason). SHe got really scared & we couldn't figure out what his issue is.
We then discovered that anytime we as much as touch the counter in that area he has this same aggressive reaction.
I got treats, and he took them perfectly...even when I put them right on that spot...no problem. 2 seconds later though, without the treats, he flipped out again, barking like crazy. Since my sister's baby was sleeping, she said we aren't allowed to "train" him right now...but I just don't know what to do tomorrow. I have Never seen such a reaction.
The problem with all the articles I've been trying to read before posting this is the following...
Oakley seems to have a "switch" that snaps on...and once its on, I have almost never been able to turn it off unless he is removed from the stimulus or vice versa. Now, this is great when this is possible, but this can't always be done. This applies to other dogs, "scary" objects & unknown people. This problem is escalated 100000x when he is on a leash or there is a barrier btwn him & the object/being held back.
Ex: Exterminator comes over...Oakley starts running to see him, but I stop him so he doesn't run up to him (since not everyone likes that...). He stops listening to his "stay" command, so I grab his collar...and the sh*t hits the fan...Oakley starts lunging/snarling/barking like a mad dog...scaring the crap outta the exterminator. Luckily, I happen to know that both the exterminator & Oakley have in fact met & have gotten along just fine...so the exterminator agrees to trust me & allow me to let him go...
Oakley happily runs up, sniffs him, wags his tail & licks him. Course I am aware I just rewarded his aggressive behavior, but I just don't know what else to do. The only other option (which we do a majority of the time), is locking him in another room. BUt the whole time he is barking & scratching at the door (which my parents are REALLY mad at). If i'm in the room with him, I can calm him down, so whenever this is possible, this is what we do.
Anyways, the point is, Oakley can turn on a dime when I tell him to "come" mid-squirrel chase (his favorite thing), but he cannot as much as sit once he freaks out at whatever the "scary" stimulus is.
The situation always turns into an incredibly nerve-racking scenario cause both me & the other person are scared he is going to bite...its loud & noisy, cause I am trying to command him over his barking (prob not good, but I don;t want to just stand there & make the other person think i'm not gonna do anything).
I've been giving Oakley massages to help calm him down...it works really well (did this after the counter-snapping incident)...until he comes across something excitable again. The second he walked back into the kitchen & saw someone touching the counter, he freaked back out. I also squat down next to him and stroke him while saying "calm" as soothing as I can (works great after the stimulus is removed).
I just think he is insanely tense, but have no clue how to calm him once his switch is on. And this behavior occurs whether or not he has just been on an hour long walk.
And yes, the counter has now been duct taped, so no one will accidentally snap it again!!!
help? please? Thanks!!