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Just to forewarn you, this is obscenely long. I apologize in advance.
I'm adopting a female Heeler on Sat who's guestimated to be 2 years old. She came in as a stray, so they don't know much, but they said she'd had several litters already (she's getting spayed today! yay!). This is my assessment after seeing her on Sat... She's very submissive, rolling onto her back when you pet her, sometimes putting her ears half back and head slightly lowered when you look at her (other times she's searching my face for guidance). She loves attention and is very sweet, cuddling with you and generally being a love bug. In an enclosed space she stayed very near me (velcro dog) and was always looking at me for guidance. When near a door going outside she really seemed to want out and pretty much ignored everyone in the room. I know nothing about her training, but she walks well on a loose leash (tho not near me).
She appeared to be looking for a way out the whole time, and wasn't strongly bonded to any one person. She also doesn't have a known name (they called her Rudy, blech ) so she doesn't respond much to calling her to you. I get the feeling she'll bond very strongly with me given some time, and once that happens she'll be much more attentive to me and my cues. She seems to be either neutral or submissive with other dogs. I didn't get to see her interact with one directly but she ignored all the barking and jumping of the other dogs. She's very cautious of cats, not wanting anything to do with them. When the humane society guy took her back to her kennel he scooped her up in his arms like a baby and she did nothing. Overall she's a very submissive and almost shy dog who I would expect to develop a strong bond with her new owner and be a Velcro dog.
A little about myself… My previous dog was very dominant, so I’m used to dealing with the opposite temperament from this new dog. I’ve read Patricia McConnell’s “The Other End of The Leash” many times and I plan to use clicker training for this new dog (I tried it half-heartedly with my previous dog). I went thru the sticky’s in this forum and also like the level system by the woman with the PWDs & llamas (forget her name atm). As far as my ultimate goals with this dog, I want her to earn at least a CGC, and hopefully much more than that. I’d like to title her in obedience, and try our hand at every other sport (agility, flyball, tracking, etc). I want to teach her lots of tricks and fun stuff to keep her occupied and further my own education. But for now I’m going to treat her as if she were a puppy, only housebroken.
So here are my questions! First of all, I have two cats. I live in a 2 bdrm apartment with a spare room. How do I best introduce her to the cats? My older cat is very dominating and the younger one will just avoid her, and she avoids cats, so really it’s just about keeping it low stress and positive for everyone. Should I put the cats in the spare room? For how long (hours, days)? Given that I have no relationship or prior training with this dog, what methods should I use to ensure she and the cats have a positive experience?
Second, I’m a little concerned that she may, once bonded with me, develop separation anxiety. What can I do now to prevent it from starting in the first place?
Third, how long should I wait until I can train and expect more from her? For the first few days, maybe even a week, I just plan on us hanging out and establishing some ground rules. When can I push for more? When can I start with clicker training (loading the clicker)? Basic behaviors (sit, down, stay, etc)?
Fourth, because she’s so submissive and timid I’d like to work on building up her confidence. I know that training in general will do this, but what are some specific exercises I can do with her to make her more confident? I don’t mean bold and dominant, I mean calm and relaxed. In the same vein, I’d like to allow her to sleep on the bed and sit on the couch with me. I don’t anticipate problems with this, but what are some steps I can take to keep it in my control?
Fifth, how do I teach her the new name? I’m thinking of changing it to Phoebe, so how do I reinforce that without her being clicker trained? Also, she seems to be kind of on the fence about whether to stay or go. How do I strengthen our bond so she recognizes me as her new leader and not just somebody who’s keeping her from going on a quest to find her old owners?
I probably sound like a total neophyte, but really I’m just trying to sort everything out. I’ve read a wide variety of training books with different methods, and trained with trainers who used different methods. I've found it difficult to choose one, but I think positive reinforcement training is the way to go. There are no trainers in my area (tiny college town) to help me tailor a program just for her, so I figured I’d ask you guys.
Thanks so much, and sorry this turned into an e-novel!!
I'm adopting a female Heeler on Sat who's guestimated to be 2 years old. She came in as a stray, so they don't know much, but they said she'd had several litters already (she's getting spayed today! yay!). This is my assessment after seeing her on Sat... She's very submissive, rolling onto her back when you pet her, sometimes putting her ears half back and head slightly lowered when you look at her (other times she's searching my face for guidance). She loves attention and is very sweet, cuddling with you and generally being a love bug. In an enclosed space she stayed very near me (velcro dog) and was always looking at me for guidance. When near a door going outside she really seemed to want out and pretty much ignored everyone in the room. I know nothing about her training, but she walks well on a loose leash (tho not near me).
She appeared to be looking for a way out the whole time, and wasn't strongly bonded to any one person. She also doesn't have a known name (they called her Rudy, blech ) so she doesn't respond much to calling her to you. I get the feeling she'll bond very strongly with me given some time, and once that happens she'll be much more attentive to me and my cues. She seems to be either neutral or submissive with other dogs. I didn't get to see her interact with one directly but she ignored all the barking and jumping of the other dogs. She's very cautious of cats, not wanting anything to do with them. When the humane society guy took her back to her kennel he scooped her up in his arms like a baby and she did nothing. Overall she's a very submissive and almost shy dog who I would expect to develop a strong bond with her new owner and be a Velcro dog.
A little about myself… My previous dog was very dominant, so I’m used to dealing with the opposite temperament from this new dog. I’ve read Patricia McConnell’s “The Other End of The Leash” many times and I plan to use clicker training for this new dog (I tried it half-heartedly with my previous dog). I went thru the sticky’s in this forum and also like the level system by the woman with the PWDs & llamas (forget her name atm). As far as my ultimate goals with this dog, I want her to earn at least a CGC, and hopefully much more than that. I’d like to title her in obedience, and try our hand at every other sport (agility, flyball, tracking, etc). I want to teach her lots of tricks and fun stuff to keep her occupied and further my own education. But for now I’m going to treat her as if she were a puppy, only housebroken.
So here are my questions! First of all, I have two cats. I live in a 2 bdrm apartment with a spare room. How do I best introduce her to the cats? My older cat is very dominating and the younger one will just avoid her, and she avoids cats, so really it’s just about keeping it low stress and positive for everyone. Should I put the cats in the spare room? For how long (hours, days)? Given that I have no relationship or prior training with this dog, what methods should I use to ensure she and the cats have a positive experience?
Second, I’m a little concerned that she may, once bonded with me, develop separation anxiety. What can I do now to prevent it from starting in the first place?
Third, how long should I wait until I can train and expect more from her? For the first few days, maybe even a week, I just plan on us hanging out and establishing some ground rules. When can I push for more? When can I start with clicker training (loading the clicker)? Basic behaviors (sit, down, stay, etc)?
Fourth, because she’s so submissive and timid I’d like to work on building up her confidence. I know that training in general will do this, but what are some specific exercises I can do with her to make her more confident? I don’t mean bold and dominant, I mean calm and relaxed. In the same vein, I’d like to allow her to sleep on the bed and sit on the couch with me. I don’t anticipate problems with this, but what are some steps I can take to keep it in my control?
Fifth, how do I teach her the new name? I’m thinking of changing it to Phoebe, so how do I reinforce that without her being clicker trained? Also, she seems to be kind of on the fence about whether to stay or go. How do I strengthen our bond so she recognizes me as her new leader and not just somebody who’s keeping her from going on a quest to find her old owners?
I probably sound like a total neophyte, but really I’m just trying to sort everything out. I’ve read a wide variety of training books with different methods, and trained with trainers who used different methods. I've found it difficult to choose one, but I think positive reinforcement training is the way to go. There are no trainers in my area (tiny college town) to help me tailor a program just for her, so I figured I’d ask you guys.
Thanks so much, and sorry this turned into an e-novel!!