Obama Supports Same-Sex Marriage

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Why do YOU care of someone else is "sinning." as long as you're on your way to heaven, why do you care so much about suppressing the rights of others?
Because followers are supposed to spread the word and try to save others.

Ask a practicing Catholic some day about the burden of having to spread the word. The Catholic faith is very fire and brimstone anyway... one of my co-workers told me the exact wording he was given once about his responsibility to save the souls of other people and it was, uh, alarming to say the least. Yikes.
 

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Because followers are supposed to spread the word and try to save others.
I'd be interested to see how many people this does the exact opposite too though.

Preaching appears to have the interesting effect of turning people to atheism. Surely god realises this.
 
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Ask a practicing Catholic some day about the burden of having to spread the word. The Catholic faith is very fire and brimstone anyway... one of my co-workers told me the exact wording he was given once about his responsibility to save the souls of other people and it was, uh, alarming to say the least. Yikes.
Definitely not true for all. My whole family is Catholic, I went to Catholic school for 13 years. All my teachers were very anti fire and brimstone and converting others was never talked about. We were also ALWAYS taught that the bible is not literal.
 

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I'd be interested to see how many people this does the exact opposite too though.

Preaching appears to have the interesting effect of turning people to atheism. Surely god realises this.
Well, note that I didn't say HOW they're supposed to spread the word and try to save people... I think we had a conversation about this on here a few years ago. Honestly I doubt if most people on this forum know I'm a Christian... I don't hide it, I'll talk openly about it with people if they are really interested to know about my faith. But I don't run around beating people over the head with the bible either LOL. If people don't really pay a lot of attention to threads in the Fire Hydrant they probably wouldn't know.
And usually when people find out they're surprised because "you're so cool." And to them you can't be a genuinely nice, cool person and also still be a Christian... which makes me really sad, but that seems to be the thought process.

But I dunno. To me it's about how I live my life. I try to live my life the way I'm supposed to and I usually let that speak for itself. You CAN be a cool person and be a Christian... because I do it every day.
Maybe I'm the one doing it wrong. Maybe I'm supposed to run around whacking people on the head with a Bible. I don't know for sure. But I sure am trying.


All my teachers were very anti fire and brimstone and converting others was never talked about.
That totally shocks me, because my co-worker was basically told the souls of EVERY SINGLE PERSON he passes EVER, including random strangers on the street, rest on him to save.
One of my friends from high school was told that in heaven you will forever hear the screams of the people you failed to save as they languish in hell.
Even non-Catholics are told they are supposed to spread the word, but my friends who are Catholic seem to have been given more guilt about it than the other Christian religions...
 

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Which is wrong, and I'm sure anyone would agree that it's wrong to bring a child into a relationship to prove a point. Just like the people on the brink of divorce who have a kid to "save" their relationship. Or the people who have a kid to have an excuse to stay home and not work. Or the ones who have a kid so that they can **** off their parents and not allow grandma/grandpa to see them. All wrong.

Gay marriage =/= bringing a child into a screwed up home. Your sister and her partner aren't being good parents. There are plenty of same sex parents doing a great job, and plenty of horrid moms and dads out there as well.

I am a Christian. I love God, have read the Bible backwards and forwards, and studied gender/marriage/the Bible fairly in depth (I had to teach it to my middle school Bible study girls this year, and really, really solidified my own faith in doing so). I do not, for one instant, think that God is against same sex relationships. Paul and Timothy seem to preach against it in one way or another, but in the same letters they write about women not speaking in church, women not ever teaching men, and women keeping their heads covered at all times. Paul goes so far as to say it's best for people NEVER to get married (that the only reason we should is if we can't "control our lusts").

Even if I was against it...I wouldn't vote against it. That's denying people basic human rights, in my opinion.
I have been studying about this a lot myself. If you have time, do you think you could shoot me a PM about this? I don't want to debate you, I promise--I am actually a Christian who supports gay marriage (just don't have the time now to write a proper post about it), and I am curious about how you can to that conclusion.
 

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1). No one chooses to be gay. It sucks to be ridiculed by ignorant asses.

2). Religion is flawed. It was created and used for control. It is easy to control the fearful. Religion creates fear. Wunderba!
It's so funny to be called an ignorant ass by someone who acts the same way. Notice you are the only one unable to keep name calling and silly childish behaviour out of it.
 

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That totally shocks me, because my co-worker was basically told the souls of EVERY SINGLE PERSON he passes EVER, including random strangers on the street, rest on him to save.
One of my friends from high school was told that in heaven you will forever hear the screams of the people you failed to save as they languish in hell.
Yep that sounds about right lol. My husband and I are both from families with very very long-standing traditional Catholic faiths and...yeah. I'm not sure I was told I would be haunted in the afterlife by those I fail to save, but we were told that failing to spread the faith at every opportunity was a sin and that we were guilty if those around us go to hell if we didn't do our best to save them. They were generally kind enough to give us the pass if we truly tried our best and failed...I think free will came in to it somewhere IIRC.
 

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Well, note that I didn't say HOW they're supposed to spread the word and try to save people... I think we had a conversation about this on here a few years ago. Honestly I doubt if most people on this forum know I'm a Christian... I don't hide it, I'll talk openly about it with people if they are really interested to know about my faith. But I don't run around beating people over the head with the bible either LOL. If people don't really pay a lot of attention to threads in the Fire Hydrant they probably wouldn't know.
And usually when people find out they're surprised because "you're so cool." And to them you can't be a genuinely nice, cool person and also still be a Christian... which makes me really sad, but that seems to be the thought process.

But I dunno. To me it's about how I live my life. I try to live my life the way I'm supposed to and I usually let that speak for itself. You CAN be a cool person and be a Christian... because I do it every day.
Maybe I'm the one doing it wrong. Maybe I'm supposed to run around whacking people on the head with a Bible. I don't know for sure. But I sure am trying.




That totally shocks me, because my co-worker was basically told the souls of EVERY SINGLE PERSON he passes EVER, including random strangers on the street, rest on him to save.
One of my friends from high school was told that in heaven you will forever hear the screams of the people you failed to save as they languish in hell.
Even non-Catholics are told they are supposed to spread the word, but my friends who are Catholic seem to have been given more guilt about it than the other Christian religions...
This is actually how I am in person too. I don't preach to people I meet. If someone asks me I will tell them about God, I bring up God in passing phrases like "this has been hard but in the end I know God is trying to tell me something... I am just trying to figure out what it is hahaha". I am a very casual, laid back person in person. I can trll you that I have really touched my mother... I don't preach to her, I just say thjngs in passing like "gid has a plan for this trial in my life, I know it" and then I will list the things that I know is Gods hand in that particular trial like "this happened just like this and then this happened... And I don't believe in coincidence anymore"

Now she is the one initiating talks with me about God. I have never heard her talk much about God before so this is amazing to me.

I know it seems hard to believe for people on here but I am really not pushy about my beliefs at all in real life lol

I just give my teatimony for what God is doing in my life and thefact that my mother is taking such a prrsonal interest in it and talking about it touches me so deeply and it's something I never expected. She is simply inspired by my testimony and I can't even begin to describe how that makes my heart soar
 
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Also, a human cannot "save" anither human in that sense. We can give the gospel, lay the ground work, but in the end only God can save someone... That person has to seek to be saved.
 

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Also, a human cannot "save" anither human in that sense. We can give the gospel, lay the ground work, but in the end only God can save someone... That person has to seek to be saved.
Myeah you know what I meant.
 
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Catholics vary greatly by region. Where I few up the majority of Catholics were democrats and very liberal. In this area the conservative Catholics were the rarity. But yeah, never once have I been talked to about conversion when I was catholic or since leaving has anyone tried to convert me back.

Both of my catholic schools (gradeschool and high school) had a proportion of non Catholics who just came for the quality of the schools. While they did have to take religion as a class there was never any conversion and we always openly discussed other religions. Maybe I was in a catholic utopia lol

I have had other sects or Christianity try though.
 

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So - I haven't read every page of this thread - because it exploded while I was out. ;)


Same-sex marriage shouldn't be a religious debate IMO. It shouldn't be a debate at all. All humanbeings are made equal, no matter what color skin you have, what country you come from or what your sexual orientation is. We are all humans crammed up on earth - so we might as well get along.
Aren't there far more important things to worry about in the world, than if a man should or shouldn't be allowed to marry another man. We as humans, have far greater problems - and we NEED to work together to solve those.
 

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This thread moves too fast for me to keep up with.

Both of my catholic schools (gradeschool and high school) had a proportion of non Catholics who just came for the quality of the schools. While they did have to take religion as a class there was never any conversion and we always openly discussed other religions. Maybe I was in a catholic utopia lol
My high school was like that. We actually had a Baptist priest come do our masses in school, and I loved him! Well, we all did. That's why he kept getting invited back, lol. There were plenty of non-Catholics at my school. They were required to take all the religion courses, but none of our religion courses strictly taught Catholicism. I remember a spirituality course, a world religions course, and some sort of meditative/reflective course. I don't remember what specifically it was called, but it was awesome. Very calm and peaceful. Those who weren't practicing Catholics were also required to attend any mass that was held during school, but they weren't required to participate. You just had to sit there and be present. No one ever tried to shove the Catholic religion down your throat, either. I loved my high school.
 

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Haven't read the thread but although I do agree that same sex marriage should be legal, I think this was a purely political move on Obama's part. I don't really know why this is such a big deal to be honest that he said this. He tiptoed around with the words like 'for me personally'. I doubt it will actually change anything, it's still up for the states to decide.
 
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This thread moves too fast for me to keep up with.


My high school was like that. We actually had a Baptist priest come do our masses in school, and I loved him! Well, we all did. That's why he kept getting invited back, lol. There were plenty of non-Catholics at my school. They were required to take all the religion courses, but none of our religion courses strictly taught Catholicism. I remember a spirituality course, a world religions course, and some sort of meditative/reflective course. I don't remember what specifically it was called, but it was awesome. Very calm and peaceful. Those who weren't practicing Catholics were also required to attend any mass that was held during school, but they weren't required to participate. You just had to sit there and be present. No one ever tried to shove the Catholic religion down your throat, either. I loved my high school.
Exactly!

My school was also pretty feminist too. The teachers were vERY open about not supporting the pope's decision that women should never be priests. When we had school mass, if the priest was not one of the regulars they were always a bit shocked about how little we let them do lol
 

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For the record I am a Christian and I support legalizing same sex marriages. To me if it is a sin is a non-issue. That has no bearing on it's legality and granting people legal rights.

Pretty much this:

Which is wrong, and I'm sure anyone would agree that it's wrong to bring a child into a relationship to prove a point. Just like the people on the brink of divorce who have a kid to "save" their relationship. Or the people who have a kid to have an excuse to stay home and not work. Or the ones who have a kid so that they can **** off their parents and not allow grandma/grandpa to see them. All wrong.

Gay marriage =/= bringing a child into a screwed up home. Your sister and her partner aren't being good parents. There are plenty of same sex parents doing a great job, and plenty of horrid moms and dads out there as well.

I am a Christian. I love God, have read the Bible backwards and forwards, and studied gender/marriage/the Bible fairly in depth (I had to teach it to my middle school Bible study girls this year, and really, really solidified my own faith in doing so). I do not, for one instant, think that God is against same sex relationships. Paul and Timothy seem to preach against it in one way or another, but in the same letters they write about women not speaking in church, women not ever teaching men, and women keeping their heads covered at all times. Paul goes so far as to say it's best for people NEVER to get married (that the only reason we should is if we can't "control our lusts").

Even if I was against it...I wouldn't vote against it. That's denying people basic human rights, in my opinion.
I just wanted to point out that not ALL Christians are against legalizing same sex marriage.
 

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People fear what they don't understand, If you've never been the product of discrimination how can you possibly understand it. I have a very hard time understand why people are so against love? Isn't that what marriage is? Why can you choose to show your love in that way, but others can't? Everyone knows that I always thought of marriage as a "piece of paper" but I've learned to open my eyes and see that, thats not what its about at all.

Its about love, its about commitment, its about finding that one special person that you can't see yourself without. Now I know that you dont have to be married to be commited, but if thats the way you want to express your love then I truely dont understand what the big deal is?

People are so up in arms about giving up "our rights / freedoms / etc.. but when it comes to something that they dont agree with, then somehow its oh nevermind its not taking away my rights so why should I care, and well you should care, plain and simple.
 

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Well.... I can tell you that the "marriage" between my sister and her parter is creating a lifetime of misery for their son. That kid is a symbol of their rebellion. Who cares that he is almost 5 and can barely speak? They don't even care, he is just the symbol of their rebellion.

I notice you referring to being homosexual as rebellion several times. Are your sister and her partner actually doing anything detrimental to the child other than simply being gay?

Another thing I am curious about. The Bible command at times that you kill sinners. I remember this one in particular...

If your own full brother, or your son or daughter, or your beloved wife, or you intimate friend, entices you secretly to serve other gods, whom you and your fathers have not known, gods of any other nations, near at hand or far away, from one end of the earth to the other: do not yield to him or listen to him, nor look with pity upon him, to spare or shield him, but kill him. Your hand shall be the first raised to slay him; the rest of the people shall join in with you. You shall stone him to death, because he sought to lead you astray from the Lord, your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, that place of slavery. And all Israel, hearing of this, shall fear and never do such evil as this in your midst. (Deuteronomy 13:7-12 NAB)​

So, what do you do about this? I'll bet you've had some people of other religions come to your door, or maybe you've seen Hare Krishnas in airports. How did you deal with the situation?
 

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