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I can’t help but smile when I think of how drastically life changed nearly five years ago, when this tiny black and white bundle of fur bounded into our lives. You caught hold of my heart strings, early on, before I had even opened your cage at the SPCA and it didn’t take long before you had hook, lined, and sinkered Mit, too.

Oh, my Buddy. How I love you so. You’ve not been gone long and I can already feel the ache in my heart. Your absence is magnifying... Banzai is laying at my feet, Bella curled between Mit and I- we miss you already.

You were the life of the party. You let everyone know when it was time to play, when it was time to eat, when it was time for everyone to pay attention to you and you let the whole neighborhood know when I arrived home from work. Don’t tell Banzai or Bella, but that was one of my favorite parts of the day- when I pulled into the driveway and before I was even out of the car I could hear your high pitched bark ringing through the neighborhood. Nobody can beat that homecoming and I can’t tell you how happy I am that I was able to hear that one last time, yesterday, when I got home from work. No matter how sick you were, you still did the things that made you Buddy.You gave your last day on earth your all. You ate one last meal, you played in your pool, you chased your ball and you loved with all that you are.

You taught me long ago that life was worth fighting for and I was ready to go to bat for you again, Buddy, but I told you just yesterday, that it was okay for you to go. Probably the hardest words I have ever formed and spoken, but I needed you to know that it was okay- that I needed you to be okay and that I would be okay if it was your time. Some things are worth fighting for, but sometimes we need to know when to bow out gracefully and this morning you again taught us one of life’s greatest lessons- how to bow out gracefully and say goodbye.

There will never be another Buddy. There will never be another dog like you- you taught Banzai how to fetch (okay, so he’s not mastered the whole concept- he’s a work in progress) you taught Bella had to beg (and she’s put her own twists on it, she’s quite good) and you taught me what it’s like to really love a dog. There is a special place, a 90lb lab/dane/pointer/maltese paw print sized place, forever etched into my heart. You took root 5 years ago and I will never, ever forget you. Rest in peace, my Buddy Boy. Run free at the bridge, enjoy a life free of all that ailed you on earth and know that every time there is rainbow, I will look to the heavens and thank God for you and that special place you now reside, the Rainbow Bridge.

 

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I don't have the words to express how sorry I am for your loss, Nikki. My heart just aches for you.
 

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Oh god, Nik. I am so so sorry. He was such a special dog, always one of my favorites. Run free, Buddy Boy. And ((((((((Hugs)))))))) to you, Nikki.

I wish I could come up with more to say. It was just too soon.
 

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Rest easy, Buddy.

Buddy has always been one of my favorite chaz dogs, and your love for him shined through in all of your posts. This isn't fair at all. He went way too soon.

(((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))) for you and Mit. And lots of puppy kisses and hugs for Bella and Bonzai.
 

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Rest peaceful dear Buddy, no more pain, no more illness...........

(((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) for you Nik
 
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I've been crying ever since I got your message this morning.

For everyone who never got to meet Buddy . . . Well . . . You missed something really special.

He didn't get to stay here long -- but he crammed a week's worth of life and love into every single day.

Every time Tallulah gets excited and goes and gets one of her toys to calm down, I will think of you, Buddy, with a smile and a tear.
 

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Every time you posted pictures, Buddy's personality came shining through. It has always been clear that Buddy was a special guy--so while he was here only a short while, he touched so many lives by your sharing him with us all. He obviously lived life to the fullest in his way, and we should all hope for a life so full of love.
Run free Buddy, and know that we will all miss you.
 

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I have tears streaming down my face after reading that... What a special dog to have shared your life with. ((((hugs))))
 

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Run free Buddy. Enjoy all the fetch you can handle and rest easy knowing you touched the lives of many. (((((giant hugs)))))
 
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One of the funniest things I have ever seen dogs do -- Buddy and Banzai's version of Fetch.

Now, understand, the Kelly backyard holds uncounted balls, but Buddy would pick out one that he particularly liked at that moment (it had to still have good bounceability) to play with.

You throw the ball, Buddy lopes after it.

Banzai blazes past Buddy to hopefully catch it before it hits the ground, but if not, he scrabbles after it and gets it, then starts back with it . . .

And hands it off to Buddy after a few steps so that Buddy can bring it back to you to be thrown again.

They would do that for HOURS. :)
 

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Nikki, I'm so sorry. :( :( I was silently hoping every since I saw about Buddy that it would be a different outcome.

Many many ((((((((hugs)))))))))). *sob*
 

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I remember Buddy for a long time on this forum....the stories, the photos. I felt like I knew him from the descriptions of his sweet personality. In just 5 years, it sounds like he grabbed life in both paws and found joy in every minute of every day. I know how horribly you'll miss him and that it will take time to come to grips. I think your tribute was beautiful, but it made me cry. Your love shows in every word. I hope you'll find peace eventually with his passing. (((hugs))) I'm so very sorry Nikki.
 

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