To each his own, but IMO that is not parenting, it is retaliation. Who is the adult here?
Clearly the child needs to learn a lesson about responsibility and privileges, but do the dad’s actions teach that? Our kids learn from our actions much more than our words. This dad’s actions are saying that if you’re angry its okay to retaliate, use violence (a deadly weapon no less), and get even. That’s no lesson I want any child of mine learning.
Instead I would like to see this child learn that with increased responsibility come increased freedoms, and privileges. That there are rewards for sensible behavior and that there is joy and satisfaction in a job well done.
And before anyone tells me I haven’t met any “awful” teenagers, let me clarify that I have been teaching teens since 1993, spent 6 years teaching at a home for wards of the state who had suffered unspeakable abuse and neglect and abandonment, and currently teach at a public high school with over 75% of our population living in poverty.
Not gonna lie, parenting is no cake walk and no parent is perfect or hasn’t made mistakes. I think its clear that this dad loves his daughter and cares deeply about what kind of adult she becomes.
You can’t judge an entire father/daughter relationship on one 5 minute youtube clip, for sure. But just speaking to this one incident, I don’t agree with how this dad handled it.
Clearly the child needs to learn a lesson about responsibility and privileges, but do the dad’s actions teach that? Our kids learn from our actions much more than our words. This dad’s actions are saying that if you’re angry its okay to retaliate, use violence (a deadly weapon no less), and get even. That’s no lesson I want any child of mine learning.
Instead I would like to see this child learn that with increased responsibility come increased freedoms, and privileges. That there are rewards for sensible behavior and that there is joy and satisfaction in a job well done.
And before anyone tells me I haven’t met any “awful” teenagers, let me clarify that I have been teaching teens since 1993, spent 6 years teaching at a home for wards of the state who had suffered unspeakable abuse and neglect and abandonment, and currently teach at a public high school with over 75% of our population living in poverty.
Not gonna lie, parenting is no cake walk and no parent is perfect or hasn’t made mistakes. I think its clear that this dad loves his daughter and cares deeply about what kind of adult she becomes.
You can’t judge an entire father/daughter relationship on one 5 minute youtube clip, for sure. But just speaking to this one incident, I don’t agree with how this dad handled it.