Which is easier?
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HAHA. I was all like, **** this, I'm having sex with dudes. And then I tried to make that happen and now I'm thinking I get girls a little better and am more turned on by them. But I'm also SUPER straightforward and blunt - that usually makes girls think a bit. "What's your sexual history like?" "When was the last time you were STD tested?" "What were the results?" "How do you feel about vibrators/____/_____/_____?" "What do you like?" "What don't you like?"
In retrospect, this might be why I've been told that I'm intimidating.
Bondage. Definitely. All kinds of toys if you count that as a "fetish." I call it a Tuesday. Same with anal, it's more of a regular thing than a special fetish. I'm actually not sure what I do that could be considered a fetish. Sex in/on cars? Hanging from roof rails is fun. (Side note but completely unrelated, of course: I need roof rails on my car.) The ex and I used to drive around and have sex on church grounds..or in them.. that was kind of our thing. I guess that's a fetish? It was so messed up it turned me on.
That's the point of the thread... I warned people who couldn't handle TMI to keep out. So this is a place for everyone else to share. So share.
Nope. It's a personal taste thing, Paige. Everyone has a different comfort zone and sometimes those change. ****, in the last few months I've decided I'm not comfortable with anyone going down on me. Attempts have been met with some resistance, in fact. :rofl1
In retrospect, this might be why I've been told that I'm intimidating.
Yeah that's a no-go for me, but whatever floats your boat .
Let's add to this 'TMI' question thing. What's your kink/fetishes?
.Let's add to this 'TMI' question thing. What's your kink/fetishes?
Kinks and fetishs? You don't wanna know !
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Nope.
It's a personal taste thing, Paige. Everyone has a different comfort zone and sometimes those change. ****, in the last few months I've decided I'm not comfortable with anyone going down on me. Attempts have been met with some resistance, in fact. :rofl1
I rarely talk about my sex life. That's not going to change here, no way I want it immortalising we are pretty open minded, that's all I'm concerned with!
Funny reading though! Well, not funny just, amusing
Sex is just plain weird when you think about it in its literal sense. Its a simple thing we have just completely taken and gone wild with. And I mean that in many senses lol. From censorship to the totally taboo to the extreme end of extreme.
we are pretty open minded, that's all I'm concerned with!Funny reading though! Well, not funny just, amusing
Sex is just plain weird when you think about it in its literal sense. Its a simple thing we have just completely taken and gone wild with. And I mean that in many senses lol. From censorship to the totally taboo to the extreme end of extreme.
Nope. It's a personal taste thing, Paige. Everyone has a different comfort zone and sometimes those change. ****, in the last few months I've decided I'm not comfortable with anyone going down on me. Attempts have been met with some resistance, in fact. :rofl1
It's a personal taste thing, Paige. Everyone has a different comfort zone and sometimes those change. ****, in the last few months I've decided I'm not comfortable with anyone going down on me. Attempts have been met with some resistance, in fact. :rofl1
This, I hate it too. It's not that I am embarrassed about "down there" or anything, it just doesn't do anything for me. Oh and anal ... Hell no, I have no interest in being penetrated in a place that doesnt have any nerve endings meant for pleasure LOL.
We don't have any "fetishes" per say but OH has said that he thinks my glasses make me look like a "sexy Librarian" xD
LOL. We don't have any "fetishes" per say but OH has said that he thinks my glasses make me look like a "sexy Librarian" xD
This, I hate it too. It's not that I am embarrassed about "down there" or anything, it just doesn't do anything for me. Oh and anal ... Hell no, I have no interest in being penetrated in a place that doesnt have any nerve endings meant for pleasure LOL.
We don't have any "fetishes" per say but OH has said that he thinks my glasses make me look like a "sexy Librarian" xD
LOL. We don't have any "fetishes" per say but OH has said that he thinks my glasses make me look like a "sexy Librarian" xD
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I feel really boring now
I think for the first three years or so we had sex like 3-8 times a day when we were under the same roof/in the same area... now we're lucky if it's twice a week. HELP CHAZ haha where has my sex drive gone?! Between working all the time, getting ready for vet school & planning a wedding I just don't want to, lol. But I'd like to want to have sex before I get married to the dude, y'know??
Oh, and I've only ever had sex in LTR so they get my vote.
Also I think I was 20.
I think for the first three years or so we had sex like 3-8 times a day when we were under the same roof/in the same area... now we're lucky if it's twice a week. HELP CHAZ haha where has my sex drive gone?! Between working all the time, getting ready for vet school & planning a wedding I just don't want to, lol. But I'd like to want to have sex before I get married to the dude, y'know??
Oh, and I've only ever had sex in LTR so they get my vote.
Also I think I was 20.
I feel really boring now
I think for the first three years or so we had sex like 3-8 times a day when we were under the same roof/in the same area... now we're lucky if it's twice a week. HELP CHAZ haha where has my sex drive gone?! Between working all the time, getting ready for vet school & planning a wedding I just don't want to, lol. But I'd like to want to have sex before I get married to the dude, y'know??
Oh, and I've only ever had sex in LTR so they get my vote.
Also I think I was 20.
I think for the first three years or so we had sex like 3-8 times a day when we were under the same roof/in the same area... now we're lucky if it's twice a week. HELP CHAZ haha where has my sex drive gone?! Between working all the time, getting ready for vet school & planning a wedding I just don't want to, lol. But I'd like to want to have sex before I get married to the dude, y'know??
Oh, and I've only ever had sex in LTR so they get my vote.
Also I think I was 20.
I've found this thread rather interesting. I didn't know so many females had big sex drives as well. I'm the odd one out. Lol. I haven't had sex in over 3 years, 4 years in September. I just don't have any interest. I have had sex but I didn't enjoy it. I love pleasing myself randomly but that's about it. That's one reason I can't have a relationship, I have no sex drive.
I feel so different not having a sex drive but I guess it makes my life easier. When I was experimenting with sex I just contacted people, I thought it was easier to experiment and then leave when I want. I hate the cuddles and all that which comes with a relationship.
I feel so different not having a sex drive but I guess it makes my life easier. When I was experimenting with sex I just contacted people, I thought it was easier to experiment and then leave when I want. I hate the cuddles and all that which comes with a relationship.