As far as how often...it definitely varies. I'd say typical is like 4-5x a week. But that can mean 2-3x a day for two days and not the other days, or 4-5 nights before bed. It's less if we have other stuff going on. One time we didn't do it for like 2 weeks twice in a row and I was not too happy.
This is how it's been in both my ltrs. When I was single with a fwb it was like 2x a week.
14...and I wasn't in a relationship with him, we both knew I was moving out of state in the fall so it was just kind of a summer fling. He was so cute though. So cute.
I know everyone's different, and there are going to be different opinions but... how often do you have sex?! (How's that for even more TMI?)
Tim and I talk about this a lot. He thinks we don't ever have enough sex (uh, he's a guy?). I tell him that I'm pretty sure he gets more action in relation to how often we see each other, than many others? But maybe I'm wrong...
Typically once a day, but it honestly depends. Sometimes it is 2-3 times a day (if we're both home and in the mood), others it is more like every 2 days. Depends on our schedules/mood/level of sleepiness. I typically get cranky if we go more than two days and he's about the same as I am.
Since we're doing TMI stuff, when did everyone lose their v-card? I was 17.
I was 20 and it was with Michael. I wanted to wait until I was in a serious relationship (as in, I was an adult making an adult decision and was looking for a life partner)...and it just so happened that my first serious relationship was THE relationship. Wouldn't have had it any other way.
Usually twice a day--when we wake up & before we go to sleep. One of my biggest problems with getting up early in the morning to work out is that I totally miss our morning together! It's my favorite part of the day! haha There are times though that we're super busy at work or really tired and will miss a day or two or then on days off together/vacations it could be more than 2x a day. Varies, but consistent.
Since we're doing TMI stuff, when did everyone lose their v-card?
Yes, as long as I don't feel bloaty and gross. And it is typically done in the shower. Lol DH has no issues with it and actually instigates it most of the time.
during my time of the month is a NO TOUCHY zone. I couldn't possibly FEEL less sexy and tired and just BLAH... so not happening. But immediately after is my super happy fun time in my cycle lol
I was 17 and I hadn't even kissed anyone. That happened a few weeks later. I had just met the guy but we went on to date for a year. The guy is Briggs dad. We broke up when I got pregnant.
And I have never cared about sex on my period and neither has anyone I've been with.
While we are going TMI, does anyone else get, like extra randy when Aunt Flow is in town? I do, for some reason, but I could never ask OH to do the nasty while she is here, so if I can I will usually "take care" of myself.
I don't really get cramps but when it's that time my uterus actually hurts. Like feels bruised, like I got punched. It actually hurts to put pressure. Doesn't lend itself well to having someone poking aroud there lol.