As far as how often...it definitely varies. I'd say typical is like 4-5x a week. But that can mean 2-3x a day for two days and not the other days, or 4-5 nights before bed. It's less if we have other stuff going on. One time we didn't do it for like 2 weeks twice in a row and I was not too happy.
This is how it's been in both my ltrs. When I was single with a fwb it was like 2x a week.
I know everyone's different, and there are going to be different opinions but... how often do you have sex?! (How's that for even more TMI?)
Tim and I talk about this a lot. He thinks we don't ever have enough sex (uh, he's a guy?). I tell him that I'm pretty sure he gets more action in relation to how often we see each other, than many others? But maybe I'm wrong...
Typically once a day, but it honestly depends. Sometimes it is 2-3 times a day (if we're both home and in the mood), others it is more like every 2 days. Depends on our schedules/mood/level of sleepiness. I typically get cranky if we go more than two days and he's about the same as I am.
Since we're doing TMI stuff, when did everyone lose their v-card? I was 17.
I was 20 and it was with Michael. I wanted to wait until I was in a serious relationship (as in, I was an adult making an adult decision and was looking for a life partner)...and it just so happened that my first serious relationship was THE relationship. Wouldn't have had it any other way.
Usually twice a day--when we wake up & before we go to sleep. One of my biggest problems with getting up early in the morning to work out is that I totally miss our morning together! It's my favorite part of the day! haha There are times though that we're super busy at work or really tired and will miss a day or two or then on days off together/vacations it could be more than 2x a day. Varies, but consistent.
Since we're doing TMI stuff, when did everyone lose their v-card?
While we are going TMI, does anyone else get, like extra randy when Aunt Flow is in town? I do, for some reason, but I could never ask OH to do the nasty while she is here, so if I can I will usually "take care" of myself.
I don't really get cramps but when it's that time my uterus actually hurts. Like feels bruised, like I got punched. It actually hurts to put pressure. Doesn't lend itself well to having someone poking aroud there lol.