Which is easier?

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I lost my virginity at 18.

As far as how often...it definitely varies. I'd say typical is like 4-5x a week. But that can mean 2-3x a day for two days and not the other days, or 4-5 nights before bed. It's less if we have other stuff going on. One time we didn't do it for like 2 weeks twice in a row and I was not too happy.

This is how it's been in both my ltrs. When I was single with a fwb it was like 2x a week.
 

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Marriage for sure---sex life has never been better or easier.

I've never had sex outside of a relationship--and when I did it led to a relationship centered around sex that I thought was love.
 

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Marriage for sure---sex life has never been better or easier.

I've never had sex outside of a relationship--and when I did it led to a relationship centered around sex that I thought was love.
Yes, I also want to mention that all my FWB ... Get togethers occurred with I was single, I have never had sex outside of any relationship I was in.
 

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I know everyone's different, and there are going to be different opinions but... how often do you have sex?! (How's that for even more TMI?)

Tim and I talk about this a lot. He thinks we don't ever have enough sex (uh, he's a guy?). I tell him that I'm pretty sure he gets more action in relation to how often we see each other, than many others? But maybe I'm wrong...
Typically once a day, but it honestly depends. Sometimes it is 2-3 times a day (if we're both home and in the mood), others it is more like every 2 days. Depends on our schedules/mood/level of sleepiness. I typically get cranky if we go more than two days and he's about the same as I am.

Since we're doing TMI stuff, when did everyone lose their v-card? :p I was 17.
I was 20 and it was with Michael. I wanted to wait until I was in a serious relationship (as in, I was an adult making an adult decision and was looking for a life partner)...and it just so happened that my first serious relationship was THE relationship. Wouldn't have had it any other way.
 

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Sometimes I hate tapatalk---it doesn't show all of the comments.


I know everyone's different, and there are going to be different opinions but... how often do you have sex?! (How's that for even more TMI?)
Usually twice a day--when we wake up & before we go to sleep. One of my biggest problems with getting up early in the morning to work out is that I totally miss our morning together! It's my favorite part of the day! haha There are times though that we're super busy at work or really tired and will miss a day or two or then on days off together/vacations it could be more than 2x a day. Varies, but consistent.

Since we're doing TMI stuff, when did everyone lose their v-card? :p
17/18. It was a big year -- first year away from home, first time getting drunk, first kiss, first time having sex.



Next TMI Q--- during menstruation - sex or no?

DH is the first person I've been with who WANTS to. I still can't get into it. >.<
 

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Next TMI Q--- during menstruation - sex or no?

DH is the first person I've been with who WANTS to. I still can't get into it. >.<
Yes, as long as I don't feel bloaty and gross. And it is typically done in the shower. Lol DH has no issues with it and actually instigates it most of the time.
 

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during my time of the month is a NO TOUCHY zone. I couldn't possibly FEEL less sexy and tired and just BLAH... so not happening. But immediately after is my super happy fun time in my cycle lol
 

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I was 17 and I hadn't even kissed anyone. That happened a few weeks later. I had just met the guy but we went on to date for a year. The guy is Briggs dad. We broke up when I got pregnant.

And I have never cared about sex on my period and neither has anyone I've been with.
 

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Next TMI Q--- during menstruation - sex or no?

DH is the first person I've been with who WANTS to. I still can't get into it. >.<
I'm sorry but hell no I think its super nasty and gross and just NO!!!!
 

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No oral sex on periods (pass, thanks) but penetration of any sort is cool. It's just super messy and requires both parties to shower after.
 

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While we are going TMI, does anyone else get, like extra randy when Aunt Flow is in town? I do, for some reason, but I could never ask OH to do the nasty while she is here, so if I can I will usually "take care" of myself.
 

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Me! And I have no issue with oral sex during period time.

I feel super dirty compared to you all now.:lol-sign:
 
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When its my time I want to mount just about everything with a penis. My last fwb didn't mind, but the one before did.
 

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Helps relief craps and all that good stuff. I'm really needy during that time and want all the loving.
 

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I don't really get cramps but when it's that time my uterus actually hurts. Like feels bruised, like I got punched. It actually hurts to put pressure. Doesn't lend itself well to having someone poking aroud there lol.
 

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