I am not going to say who or when or how..I am involved in a number of children i didn't give birth to on a daily basis. When my children were small I had about 5 in the house, two of which were mine. Not babysitting, just here and not home, everyday. I could have sent them home but to what.. Then when they were a little older i moved into an apartment complex. I was sick of parents there, they put them all in the courtyard and because I was on the ground floor with the best view and my children were out there,and I was keeping an eye on mine... they decided they didn't need to be and that was only the beginning. I got stories u wouldn't believe about the parents of today..most having thier problems because they are messed up emotional over things just like this.
anyway here is what we did..about a situation not unlike this.
First...i didn't over react..even if my insides did, my outside said this is over my head..i do not know what to make of this..i love this person with my whole heart and do not want any harm for him so I did what I always do..I WENT FOR HELP First i set up a counciling session with people who are experts on children. IN ALMOST EVERY MAJOR CITY ACROSS AMERICA THERE IS SOMEONE THAT WILL LISTEN.YOU.THEY LISTEN SO GOOD THEY HAVE SET UP GRANTS THAT ARE AVAIBLE. IN KANSAS CITY THERE IS A PLACE CALLED THE CHILDREN'S PLACE..IT IS THERE FOR YOUNG CHILDREN..THEY MADE ROOM FOR US TO WORK THINGS OUT AND FIND THE WAYS WE NEEDED TO COPE AND GO ON TO LIVE A FULL LIFE
I let them evaluate and let me know if this person was capable of growing up to be a sexual preditor, harm to someone, or himself..and that is the best advice I can give you. There is help available, and the younger the problem is addressed, the more no one including the one the trespassed lives forever either feeling bad about themselves for the rest of their life, a guilt that can cripple a life, or the next in line to repeat the behavior as it is daily in most peoples life. 4 out of 5 women are raped most as children or very young adult...usually by a family member or someone close. 3 out of 5 boys. THat is just 7 out of every ten people you know. These children need the right direction to healthly lives and they are not getting it in home.
If during this post i haven't made sense, there are 5 noisy young men right behind me talking and watching the simpson's I can't hear myself think