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PixieSticksandTricks

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I figured I needed to because I may not be on much.....Im just really not....okay.


I have to say first yes something was done.

Last night I had show at a couple towns over. I knew that my ex moved back there but wasent going to let the chance of seeing him stop me. So we played our set and it really well. Well I was hanging out with my boys the rest of the night. Before we left they both were still inside talking to the owner of the bar and I was loading up the back of the van.

Well out of nowhere the ex comes from around the corner of the building. Being that im totally terrified of him I started backing away which made him laugh. He was obviousely drunk and made some crude comments. I turned my back to him and started to walk fast back to the bar hoping either of the boys were close to the door. Well he ran up behind me and threw me against the wall. I hit it pretty hard and then fell. I have a nice big deep cut on the side of my head close to my temple. I tried to get up but he was right there to pick me up by the collar of my shirt. He then pinned me against the wall and started screaming at me about how I ruined his life and reputation by lying about him.

Well I got brave or stupid and said a few things I was proud to say. To which he punched me harder than......well any man has ever punched me before. At that time the boys were coming out of the building. It would be an understatement to say they beat the sh!t outta him. The cops were called and it was a big ordeal.

So im sporting the wonder gash on my head though I can cover it with my hair. I am also sporting a beautiful black eye and big bruise the size of a grape fruit on my left hip from hitting the wall or ground. To say the least im sore.

It may seem extreme but he was the boyfriend who broke my arm and collar bone once upon a time and had no problem throwing me down stairs. Yeah he was a great guy :mad:.

I don't want pity I just wanted to let you all know why I may not be on much.
 

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:eek: I'm so sorry you ran into him. I really dont have the words to tell you how I feel about that. I am glad you stood up for yourself a bit and that you had friends around to help you. So so sorry :( :( :(
 

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What a jackass.

((HUGS))

I know you said you're not okay, but you're better than the worst possible circumstances, so I'll thank God for that... send healing vibes to your body and your heart and soul...
 

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Thanks Saje. And its cool I don't know what I would say if it happened to someone else either. Its just screwed up.

He's the reason I stayed away from guys and dating for almost fours years. And here I am in a relationship and happy. And now im terrified again. I didn't even want to be around or touched my Zach or Iggy. Or even my brother :( today. I just need time. I hate him for doing this to me.
 

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What a jackass.

((HUGS))

I know you said you're not okay, but you're better than the worst possible circumstances, so I'll thank God for that... send healing vibes to your body and your heart and soul...
Thanks. And I know he could have very well killed me. He's come so close so many times....Its just....I don't even know I wish he would leave or die or something I hate living in fear of him.
 

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You totally have the right to physical safety. If you want to pm me I can offer some advice but here is the long and short of it-
*don't back down in the law- let the law do what it will do but you must follow through.
* get a restraining order so if its violated they have something to arrest him for just simply by being in your pressence.
And finally- the belief this bast*ards have that they can still control your life is there. Let the law handle it- and hit them over and over with arrest warrents, law suits for medical bills etc- making all of it a public record.. Not one time is it forgiven- .. Remember- his rights stopped at " your nose"- ie once he touched you, he lost all rights.
 

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They arrested him for assault. I did go with my mom this morning and got a restraining order. This is the first time I have ever involved the police so im not positive how this all will work out. I have had the worst head ache of my life so I have just kind of been laying in bed. When I have more info I will let you know though.
 

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Aw Pixie , I'm so sorry that this happened to you !!! Just not fair !!!! You might want to have yourself checked out to rule out a concussion . Please stay on so that we can give you support ......we care !!! Stay safe !!!
 

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Aw Pixie , I'm so sorry that this happened to you !!! Just not fair !!!! You might want to have yourself checked out to rule out a concussion . Please stay on so that we can give you support ......we care !!! Stay safe !!!
Agreed! And this makes a medical record as well. Just be honest with them what happened- ie he hit you and its a police matter. Make all the records.
 
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You're doing the right thing, Pixie, by making a record. You're also taking a big step toward letting him know he can't do as he wants anymore - and letting yourself know that, too.

(((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))
 

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(((((((hugs))))))) to my chaz sister

Do you need to borrow Missy for a couple nights? :p She's not too fond of men who aren't 100% angels HAHA
 

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oh Pix- I sure hope you can move past this incident and stay safe from this idiot--sending you many good well thoughts!
 
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(((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))

What an @$$*(%^!
I am really sorry Pixie! :( You take your time and we will miss you, but we want you okay...Best thought and wishes!! :) I know lots of us are here if you ever need to talk.
-Ali
 

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That's pretty sick of him to do... your friends did the right thing. I hope you're able to recover, both physically and emotionally. Hope to see you on here more...
 
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Sounds like such a nice guy. :rolleyes:

I'm sorry you had to see him and that he was a jerk to do what he did. I'm glad he was arrested and you got a restraining order. Hopefully he'll get the hint it's not ok to hurt people. if not, he'll get his one day!
 

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Pix... ****... I'm glad you're alive after that. Good for your boys to beat the sh!t out of him, and I hope the police do their jobs and keep that worthless piece of scum away from you and keep you safe.

(((((((HUGS(gentle ones, taking care to not hurt bruises)))))))
 

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Thanks everyone. I still just don't have a whole lot to say. I guess im still in shock about it all. I had a big wonderful nervous breakdown earlier. Dana I may need to borrow Missy ;).
 

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