I normally hate links where you have to click to see the next page, but this one is worth the effort. For all of our losses it's good medicine to read.
http://www.answers.com/article/1237...am2=39497551¶m5=null¶m6=null#slide=13
http://www.answers.com/article/1237...am2=39497551¶m5=null¶m6=null#slide=13