Aww, poor Zander! Hope his eyes feel better soon!
Scary thought on a special needs kid rushing up... Lily would give it kisses, but that would utterly terrify Scout. Luckily her first response is usually to try and hide behind me, but I don't think I'd risk it. I think I'd try to escape as quickly as possible or intercept and grab.
They've done awesome meeting people with special needs in more laid back circumstances, i.e. not getting bum rushed. One time we ran across a downs gentleman in the middle of the night on campus, clearly had escaped and Lily was like hey mom this really isn't normal. I walked over to campus safety and let them know so they could get him corralled and sent home. That was a couple years ago.
On the Scout being scared of kids vein, she did really well visiting the little girls yesterday. We went to visit my friend and Chicago and they were over. I was super happy to see them and the younger (who chewed on Scout when she was a toddler, hence Scout's fear of some kids) is doing really well on learning to let Scout come to her and is old enough to actually understand why Scout is scared now. Super neat seeing Scout learn how to relax around her now that she's grown up a little. And then Lily is just like hey I'll take all the attention right over here... Hussy. LOL.