So I've been pretty quiet...

PlottMom

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...this is in no way a thread to garner sympathy, but more as a warning to not ever say "well, my life can't possibly get any worse!"

because I've said that a few times this month, and oh boy was I ever wrong.

We went to Premier in MI a few weeks ago... Sat night at dinner I get a call from a detective. She's in my apartment, there's been an "incident" involving my roomie and they want to lock my doors. Not worried, I figure there's some sort of drug activity or maybe she and her boyfriend duked it out. Detective says she'll feed my bird, lock the doors, and I can call the station tomorrow for more information.

Sunday rolls around, I wasn't thinking much about it (showing dogs all day and then packing up for the 8 hour drive home...) and both my boss & another detective had called. So I called the detective back... turns out my roomie had hanged herself, in my apartment, while I was gone.

Needless to say, not only was I pretty devastated over the loss of a friend/roomie/coworker, I am now finding myself inexplicably afraid of the dark, more twitchy than usual (I've got serious anxiety) and I'm that crazy girl living on her couch cause she's afraid to go upstairs.

"Well, it certainly can't get any worse!"

Then Daisy found & ate like 8 packs of rat poison at my boss' house. Thanks to the wonders of H2O2 and a quick trip to the vet, she will be just fine. It's more of an annoyance, really.

Rage went out hunting one night while I was on an overnight and was gone with my friends for about 10 hours, and when I got home at 8:30 she was in her crate with a chin of porcupine quills (my friend had been so tired when he returned her he hadn't noticed), one of which was stuck in her lower lip (like I could feel it through her chin, and through the inside of her lip, but there was nothing to grab) so she had to be sedated to have it removed.

My mom got burglarized last week, so we did a quick inventory over the phone of what jewelry she still has and what I have up here with me - she goes "and you have your nice charm bracelet..." I said "wait, do I? I haven't seen it..." After looking everywhere and much swearing and hysterical crying, the most likely scenario is that it may or may not have been stolen and pawned for drug money by aforementioned roommate. I hope to god I'm wrong and both it and the other two nice, unique pieces I'm missing are hiding under a dirty clothes pile (though how they would have hopped from their hiding spot to there I have no idea).

If you read half of that, you get a boxtruck of cookies.

Also, I fell off my bike (**** clip-in pedals...) and my upper thigh/side of my butt is literally BLACK. But man you should've heard me cursing on the way down! :yikes:
 

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Omg... just wow. I think I would be a bit creeped out if my roommate hanged herself too. I guess at least you weren't the first on the scene.

((((HUGS))))

I will heed your warning. ***fingers crossed*** that things look up for you soon!!!
 

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Super duper hugs. That all completely sucks and I'm terribly sorry. I hope things look up for you!!
 

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You know... sometimes life does indeed seem like crap hit the fan and then exploded. Last fall was like that for my family.

I lost my job, my dad got a lay off notice, my Uncle died, my sister's dog died at our Thanksgiving party, my sister's husband turned into a douche canoe, my brother's wife informed him she was flying back to Germany and taking the kids. Six months later after things are still not quite right but we're surviving, able to eat, there is a roof over our heads and things have gotten a little better. Really, sometimes you have to look for the light in the basics of life.
 

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You know... sometimes life does indeed seem like crap hit the fan and then exploded. Last fall was like that for my family.

I lost my job, my dad got a lay off notice, my Uncle died, my sister's dog died at our Thanksgiving party, my sister's husband turned into a douche canoe, my brother's wife informed him she was flying back to Germany and taking the kids. Six months later after things are still not quite right but we're surviving, able to eat, there is a roof over our heads and things have gotten a little better. Really, sometimes you have to look for the light in the basics of life.
My mother and I were just discussing that - I said "I think we're handling this all remarkably well!" she agreed and I said "I just figure I can pay my rent, afford my dogs, and I'm not starving. Plus I have you and at least two good friends!"
 

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Wow. (((((((hugs))))))))) I would be super creeped out too! Poor Rage with the porcupine quills. :( I hope things start looking up for you soon!!
 

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Oh gosh, that's a lot more than any person should have to deal with, especially all at once. I'm sorry life's so rough for you right now.
 

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Yikes... (((((HUGS)))))) You've been through some major rough stuff. I hope things improve for you. It does seem like stuff always goes really bad all at once. Maybe it's better that way, just get it all out of the way and then you can get on with things getting better?
 

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Yikes! I'd be nervous about being home alone if my roomie killed herself as well :yikes:

I'm sorry things are so rough at the moment... I hope it all gets better soon!

((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
 

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(((((HUGS))))) I hope things look up for you soon. You have had more than one person should have to deal with in a such a short time.
 
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My mother and I were just discussing that - I said "I think we're handling this all remarkably well!" she agreed and I said "I just figure I can pay my rent, afford my dogs, and I'm not starving. Plus I have you and at least two good friends!"
You have way more than that :) (((((((((HUGS)))))))))

Sometimes I wonder if we don't get this stuff all piled up at once so we can't focus too directly on any of it, strung out over a series of time.
 

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I'm so sorry for all you've been going through. What a lot you have on your plate. How very sad about your room mate. The torment she must have been in just had to be too much for her to bare. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope things will start looking up for you soon and that these awful events subside. It just can't go on forever.
 

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O_O That is a LOT to handle all at once!

Wow...that's seriously some crazy sh*t!!

Keep the cookies for yourself!
 

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Good lord, what a load of trouble and grief you've had dumped on you! You have every right to have a few anxiety attacks and maybe a small, temporary nervous breakdown. Your roommate sounds as if she was a sad, sad person.

I'm sure you know that things will improve, but right at the moment, it's overwhelming. I'm sorry about the dogs and even--if it's not too personal--about your badly bruised butt. Remember that you have people here who care about you and send you loving thoughts and hugs.
 
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It's amazing what a person can handle and still go on. I never say things couldn't get any worse!

Hope things improve greatly. Take care.
 

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Hang in there. I'm so sorry you're going through such a tough time right now. I know it's really hard right now and it seems like everything is piling on at once. Trust me when I say I can relate a bit to that feeling, but the best thing is knowing that things will improve even if at the moment they don't feel like they will. There's a quote I love by C.S Lewis "When things go wrong, you'll find they usually go on getting worse for some time; but when things once start going right they often go on getting better and better.â€
 

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