Hi guys, me again (gosh, I have too many questions).
Today I was browsing PetFinder, as I'm wont to do lately, and I noticed that the dogs catching my eye were all quite a bit middle aged, or older (the youngest was 4 years). Now, I've been looking for something older (I just don't have the consistency in schedule for a puppy at the moment) but I had imagined that I would go for a yearling, or perhaps two. I've never really met anyone who adopted a dog at an older age (some of these dogs were 7 or 8) and while I have read some good things, I'm leery.
I talked to my mom about it (I don't live with her - I just chat with my mom XD) and she's against the idea. She thinks it'll "croak" in a year and it's a "waste of time". Though, my boy was so young when he passed away that I'm more inclined to think anything can happen and age isn't necessarily a defining factor. I mean, some people on the forum have wonderfully healthy older dogs. But, having lost my boy in the early months of the year, I am very nervous of adopting a dog who may pass early.
I've come to "rely", if you will, on the down-to-earth opinions of folks on the forum and would be grateful for any input. Those of you with experience with adopting older dogs - would you do it again? What should I be looking for to "set myself up for success"? What kinds of questions should I be asking shelter staff? What are the cons to adopting an older dog from a shelter? If it helps, these are public shelters, not private rescues, that I'm looking at.
Thank you so much for reading and any input or help. I'll be going in person this upcoming Friday when I'll be in town to meet some of these dogs, so I'm hoping to go in with some new perspectives, or at the very least a better rounded opinion.
Today I was browsing PetFinder, as I'm wont to do lately, and I noticed that the dogs catching my eye were all quite a bit middle aged, or older (the youngest was 4 years). Now, I've been looking for something older (I just don't have the consistency in schedule for a puppy at the moment) but I had imagined that I would go for a yearling, or perhaps two. I've never really met anyone who adopted a dog at an older age (some of these dogs were 7 or 8) and while I have read some good things, I'm leery.
I talked to my mom about it (I don't live with her - I just chat with my mom XD) and she's against the idea. She thinks it'll "croak" in a year and it's a "waste of time". Though, my boy was so young when he passed away that I'm more inclined to think anything can happen and age isn't necessarily a defining factor. I mean, some people on the forum have wonderfully healthy older dogs. But, having lost my boy in the early months of the year, I am very nervous of adopting a dog who may pass early.
I've come to "rely", if you will, on the down-to-earth opinions of folks on the forum and would be grateful for any input. Those of you with experience with adopting older dogs - would you do it again? What should I be looking for to "set myself up for success"? What kinds of questions should I be asking shelter staff? What are the cons to adopting an older dog from a shelter? If it helps, these are public shelters, not private rescues, that I'm looking at.
Thank you so much for reading and any input or help. I'll be going in person this upcoming Friday when I'll be in town to meet some of these dogs, so I'm hoping to go in with some new perspectives, or at the very least a better rounded opinion.