I kinda need a hug

Kase

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I don't really like asking for hugs but well I need them :(.


September has really sucked firstly because my time with my loan horse Fred came to an end and more recently my then bf moved down south to uni and we are no longer 'together'.

So I wasn't having really the best of times really and then things started to get worse. My two best friends lost someone VERY close to them and are heart broken and I'm trying so hard to help them get through it. My other friend just lost her guinea pig and my other friend is soo burned out by working too many hours. On top of that my other friend who moved down south too has just split with her bf and I'm trying to be there for both of them.

I'm not moaning at all, I LOVE them and will do anything for them its just soooo hard when you feel at the lowest you've ever been, if you know what I mean. How can you be positive and chirpy when you feel so negative.


I will ALWAYS be there for my friends so this isn't a rant/vent/ moan about them and I understand I am learning a great lesson about being there for people even though you feel so low your self its just that I need a hug and have no one else to ask other than Casey and I think shes getting tired of them lol.
 

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aw, I know how you feel! Just think for the longest of time the people I leaned on, were so busy leaning on me that I had no one....

There are two way it can work out, you will get used to it, or something will play out so it will get better - I hope something works out for your sake!


(((((((((((((((((((((((HUGGGGSSSSS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Any time you need one, don't be afraid to ask, I'm always here, as are all of us chazzers!
 

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Aww Kase! (((((((((HUGS)))))))))

You'll get through this, and things will get much, much better!
 

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Thankyou so much guys, it means a lot :). I just feel sort of sill asking for hugs when there are so many people out there who are going though hell, kinda seems insignificant.
 

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Thankyou so much guys, it means a lot :). I just feel sort of sill asking for hugs when there are so many people out there who are going though hell, kinda seems insignificant.
Never think that! You are an important person and you deserve a hug (or 20)

:D
 

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((((((((HUGS)))))))) It is really tough being the strong one all the time. You have to have a chance to vent somewhere. I have noticed that the people who are usually strong aren't allowed to lean on the people who always lean on them.

I hope things get better- both for you and for everyone around you. It sounds like you really need some breathing room. You have to remember to take care of yourself, too- not just everyone else!
 
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It's not silly in the least, Kirsty . . . you're giving out a lot of emotional support to others and you need to have some put back! It's like trying to run an auto without adding fuel.
 
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((((((((HUGS)))))))) It is really tough being the strong one all the time. You have to have a chance to vent somewhere. I have noticed that the people who are usually strong aren't allowed to lean on the people who always lean on them.
You made an excellent point! And may I add that all to often the strong ones don't believe they're entitled to have "weak" moments when they need to lean on someone.
 

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Thankyou Xerxes :).

((((((((HUGS)))))))) It is really tough being the strong one all the time. You have to have a chance to vent somewhere. I have noticed that the people who are usually strong aren't allowed to lean on the people who always lean on them.

I hope things get better- both for you and for everyone around you. It sounds like you really need some breathing room. You have to remember to take care of yourself, too- not just everyone else!

Thankyou Drmom, I know you are right and don't worry I am taking care of myself :).




It's not silly in the least, Kirsty . . . you're giving out a lot of emotional support to others and you need to have some put back! It's like trying to run an auto without adding fuel.

You always speak works of wisdom Renee :).

Thank PW, I've never had corgi kisses before lol.
 

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Hard times don't last very long and they make you stronger...they also bring the people you go through it with closer to you.


(((((((hugs)))))))

chin up, feel better!
 

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(((( Hugs )))) from me and {{ slurps }} from Ollie . I agree with Renee.....I try to stay strong in heart and mind for family and friends . Last Friday I went to a double funeral . A dear friend of our family's brother shot his 22 yr old son and then himself . Between her and her dear Mother it was so soul draining . Other's lives can be so depressing to me ......... I have to thank my lucky stars .
 

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