I am so sad today

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I have been gone most of the day and have just returned at 12:30 Am.

My poor cousin is in the hospital. It seems he passed out yesterday and is now believed to be brain dead. He was not breathing for about 15 min. before they finely got him back. But sadly it is probable to late. They were talking about pulling the plug on him to day, but because there was just a tiny bit of brain activity they have decided to waite till fri some time or maybe a few more days. I am so upset. I don't want them to make the decision until they are 110% sure.


No one suspected it ..never even thought he was ill.
 

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Thats awful! I'm so, so sorry. Were all here to talk and comfort you when you need it.
 

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I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin. What happened? This has got to be so hard on you and all the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
 
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We will all be thinking about you and your family, sending you comforting wishes and hopes for miracles and wise and compassionate guidance for you during this tragic time.
 

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god im so sorry, that just isnt fair, i wish it wasnt you, i wish it wasnt anyone but i dont think you deserve it. :(
 

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necterine0...I am so sorry to hear about your cousin. What caused this, do you know? We are all here for you sweetie. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. ((((HUGS))))
 

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I am so sorry for your cousin and your family...that is so sudden..will be holding you in silent meditation. hugs
 

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SO very sorry to hear about your cousin. Its awful when they go so suddenly. I think it may be more awful for all the family involved. Hopefully the doctors will be able to give your family some answers as to why this happpened. Knowing the reason, allbeit still tragic, sometimes helps everyone cope a bit better.

My family will be thinking of you and hoping for the best ((((HUGS)))
 

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Dear Jesus, Divine Physician and Healer of the sick, we turn to you in this time of illness. O dearest comforter of the troubled, alleviate our worry and sorrow with your gentle love, and grant us the grace and strength to accept this burden. Dear God, we place our worries in your hands. We place our sick under your care and humbly ask that you restore your servant to health again. Above all, grant us the grace to acknowledge your will and know that whatever you do, you do for the love of us. Amen

((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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Thank you for your kind words, and thank you for your prayers.

He would not ever go to the doctors and he would not let anyone know if he was feeling bad. It seems that he had high blood pressure and diabetis. which caused his kidneys to fail. and when he passed out he quit breathing and his nephew tried to do CPR to no avail.He had allready turned black by the time 911 got there he had not been breathing for 15 min. and then they got him back, and took him to the hospital. They say it is to late. But last night they said that they were getting a tiny bit of brain activity. but so far no more today. I think they may be pulling the plug by tonight...Will let you all know...Thank you again.
 

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This is just so sad :( The hardest thing about life is trying to cope when these tragic events happen without any warning. Whatever happens, I hope your family finds peace in their lives and support in each other. If your cousin does not make it, he will know that you all were there and that you loved him. Take care :(
 

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