I think it's irresponsible that your parents had you. But hey, good thing I'm not the judge.
Oh my god. I was...not expecting that lol.
For the record I've seen many many comments from many members on this specific forum criticizing parents for bringing children into the world. Like, for instance, in recent times, Barbara. Lots of others in the past, too. Members who openly admit to being on welfare, teenagers, facing eviction, etc are not typically congratulated for expecting a child. I don't think that's appropriate or anyone's business, but it happens.
I think the difference is that nobody on this forum except DD has any reason to believe i'm Ill equipped to raise and provide for my kids.
And yeah, my parents both are not going to be happy when we move out.
My ex's mother actually bought a new house after her children moved out (albeit "downsized" from her multi million dollar 9 bedroom house) into one that would be able to house them and future grandchildren, all ready to be baby proofed with a farmhouse sink "to bathe the grandchildren in". Oddly, I don't think either of her kids planned on having kids themselves or moving back in with her. But, yeah, lots of older people want their kids and grandkids to live with them.