I finally think i put this where i could understand. I thought what part of anyone's point of view changes mine?And i thought none so far. Then i thought i wonder what part of us a dog would want docked or trimmed? And that is it right there. We ask dogs to accept us as we are, pretty or ugly, disabled, or ill, they accept us EXACTLY as we are, they love us for who we are not what we look like. It would only be right and just if we could do the same for them. EVerything i have learned that is important to me, trust. faith, love, acceptance, forgiveness, i learned best not from my human race but from the dogs that stood by my side, without a spoken word they taught me to be the very person i am. I could no more harm them then i could a baby in my arms. Do we look at our children and think the ears should be tucked back, a nose job, maybe breasts implants or reduction if they grow they way we think they should not be? Or do we teach them to love the tree as it is, as God gave it to them. WE criticize people for lack of self esteem because of the way we look. WE criticize the media for setting up an almost impossible criteria for our young women and men to fit in to. We can't be happy with a dang thing for what it is. WE know it isn't right, and it sets people up for much unhappiness. Maybe we need to learn more from our dogs. THey ask us for no harm and in return they give us joy. Breeders should be breeding for health and disease resistance as their primary goal, not the package. I told Mary when we came out of the park she had darn good genes. SHe has never had allergies, or coat problems, she has never had genetic linked illnesses, she has lived far beyond my hopes but not my prayers. No harm was even put on her, not even for a second did i make this dog uncomfortable. Never for a second has she made me uncomfortable. THat is the way it should be...IMO I am done i promise.