So Gwen and I have signed up for this dog behavioral course. So far it's been interesting. I have no prior classes to base this one off of but I'm pretty sure it's not a normal class.
Anyway, during the last class we were learning how to focus and walk with a purpose to help our fearful or aggressive dogs. (This class is mostly about socialization/behavior/etc, not a training class or obedience class.) I'm trying to improve my walk and focus but the trainer mentioned that Gwen and I are a lot alike: We're both not very (at all, really) assertive. She gave me some tips but I'm still a bit confused on the whole idea.
We did an exercise that involved her approaching, intending to take Gwen away. She wanted me to look intimidating (I guess?) enough so that I would persuade her not to approach. Apparently I suck at looking intimating and she took Gwen.
It's obvious that she has much more 'control' over her dogs and I certainly would not approach her if she didn't want me to. But I'm just not a very 'assertive' person.
Here's my real issue. I don't want to be unapproachable. I am simply not an intimidating person. But Gwen needs me to be more in charge. Does anyone have tips on how to be in charge for your dog, but not a total asshole?
And could someone who has more experience (maybe with training others) give their input on this whole idea?
Anyway, during the last class we were learning how to focus and walk with a purpose to help our fearful or aggressive dogs. (This class is mostly about socialization/behavior/etc, not a training class or obedience class.) I'm trying to improve my walk and focus but the trainer mentioned that Gwen and I are a lot alike: We're both not very (at all, really) assertive. She gave me some tips but I'm still a bit confused on the whole idea.
We did an exercise that involved her approaching, intending to take Gwen away. She wanted me to look intimidating (I guess?) enough so that I would persuade her not to approach. Apparently I suck at looking intimating and she took Gwen.
It's obvious that she has much more 'control' over her dogs and I certainly would not approach her if she didn't want me to. But I'm just not a very 'assertive' person.
Here's my real issue. I don't want to be unapproachable. I am simply not an intimidating person. But Gwen needs me to be more in charge. Does anyone have tips on how to be in charge for your dog, but not a total asshole?
And could someone who has more experience (maybe with training others) give their input on this whole idea?