For chazzers in long-term relationships - how often?
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Ughhhh we're having a dei spell, between a no sex order during my last trimester, not being able to after delivery, heading surgery, and now staying with family until our house is finished (Sunday, yayyyy!!!!) It has been a very, very long time for us. Typically 2 - 3 times a week, which is far less than at least once, if not twice a day as newly weds. Kids definitely had an impact, but not too much.
That should have said dry spell, and I should have read more than just the first page before I posted. I mostly lurk and occasionally will post but seriously, DD, please just stop. Nobody asked your opinion on Mm's life. I'll tell you straight up that I am living with my aunt and have been for the last ten days, with both of my kids, where my dogs are NOT welcome (they are with my parents) and I have another five days to do before our new home is ready... Now, before you say anything, maybe you should know the situation - every day, for the last five months, I have driven 45 minutes to my parent's house to make sure they are OK during the day. A few weeks ago, an investor bought a house literally across the street from them and I basically called dibs on it after he gets done with the remodel... Problem? I put in notice to the company we were renting from that we wouldn't be renewing our lease because we were moving to where we actually needed to be, and then, bam, things happened and our house won't be ready until this Sunday, which puts us, my husband, myself and our two kids, one of which is a newborn, living separated from our dogs for 15 days, with move in the day before we are supposed to go on vacation.
Ideal? Hell no. But also not for you to judge. You are one of the least compassionate people I have ever met - because you ASSUME things without having the whole freaking story, and then you back pedal trying to make yourself look better than the distorted sociopathic jerk who is, in reality, probably a 40 something man living in mommy's basement, drinking way too much pop and stirring the sh*tpot on every forum you can find. Every time I see a post from you, I mentally prepare myself to be aggravated, and for the thread to go wildly off topic because you make a stupid comment that leads it that way, so for the love of this forum and the awesomeness which it used to be, cram one of those fantastic cookies in your big mouth and SHUT UP. It's worth losing a cookie for some peace and quiet.
Kthx.
Ideal? Hell no. But also not for you to judge. You are one of the least compassionate people I have ever met - because you ASSUME things without having the whole freaking story, and then you back pedal trying to make yourself look better than the distorted sociopathic jerk who is, in reality, probably a 40 something man living in mommy's basement, drinking way too much pop and stirring the sh*tpot on every forum you can find. Every time I see a post from you, I mentally prepare myself to be aggravated, and for the thread to go wildly off topic because you make a stupid comment that leads it that way, so for the love of this forum and the awesomeness which it used to be, cram one of those fantastic cookies in your big mouth and SHUT UP. It's worth losing a cookie for some peace and quiet.
Kthx.
Also, no normal person (even a grown man living in mommys basement) would stay on a forum where everyone hates them. That alone screams mental illness to me. I can't diagnosed anything over the internet, obviously, but it looks like untreated illness to me. There was this one cat forum that my posts kept getting edited on, and people kept attacking me because of my views, and I just left. I Didn't retreat, I left because it obviously wasn't the forum for me.
Did you just call me a man? Because if you did, thanks for the laugh, I really needed that this morning, since the time change has me feeling a bit drab. About the only thing you got even remotely close to right in your post about me is the age, and even that was about ten years off xD.
Also, I haven't had my filter on for a long long time. I just didn't see the point anymore when everyone else continued to be very passive aggressive and everything else to me, which is fine and all, but dont expect ME to play nice.
Also, I haven't had my filter on for a long long time. I just didn't see the point anymore when everyone else continued to be very passive aggressive and everything else to me, which is fine and all, but dont expect ME to play nice.
Because talking behind someones back makes you a better person, right? How can any one of you really judge me? Are you really better than me? Hint, the answer is no, because you are a human being, and as good as you try to be, or as good as you think you are, you masquerade as a "good person" online. It is all a lie because human beings are jerks, its in our nature.
I might be judgemental, I might be a jerk, I might be cynical, but at least I didnt LIE about it or present a false sense of self.
One thing I can assure is I am not, however a 40 something man living in his mom's basement.
I might be judgemental, I might be a jerk, I might be cynical, but at least I didnt LIE about it or present a false sense of self.
One thing I can assure is I am not, however a 40 something man living in his mom's basement.
This is the THIRD post I've made attempting to get this thread back on track politely.
Made it bigger so it can be seen better
I prefer not to edit posts, give infractions, or anything modly-ish.....what I DO like is when mature folks can act mature on their own or with a small reminder.
If you are trolling, STOP IT. If you are LETTING a troll TROLL YOU....STOP IT. Please and thank you and all of that
Made it bigger so it can be seen better
I prefer not to edit posts, give infractions, or anything modly-ish.....what I DO like is when mature folks can act mature on their own or with a small reminder.
If you are trolling, STOP IT. If you are LETTING a troll TROLL YOU....STOP IT. Please and thank you and all of that
