Which is easier?
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We use condoms as well to quell the mess of sex in general (plus I am the one who gets to roll over and go to bed after ha ha). The first two days ... no, its just to heavy the first too days, plus usually I am so much pain that it is an act of god just to drag myself to work ( and that's after serious pain meds ... I am talking prescription level) much less have something inserted in there.
Strangely enough, that's usually the days (plus the few days before it starts) is when I am at my most horny. LOL OH loves those days before because we usually do it like at least once a day, sometimes twice a day. Our norm is like, twice a week, maybe once if we are both super busy.
Strangely enough, that's usually the days (plus the few days before it starts) is when I am at my most horny. LOL OH loves those days before because we usually do it like at least once a day, sometimes twice a day. Our norm is like, twice a week, maybe once if we are both super busy.
Sex per week depends but normally 10-14 times a week. Though my libido has dropped since I have gotten mirena. That also means I done menstruate any more so no time of the month for me but when I did I was so horny but couldn't handle any penetration.
Sex has always had to have been with some one I know fairly well do to EDS and the fact I dislocated so easily the flexibility is nice though lol.
Sex has always had to have been with some one I know fairly well do to EDS and the fact I dislocated so easily the flexibility is nice though lol.
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I don't mind doing it on my period, but for convience sake, we don't usually do it the first 3 days. Plus I'm usually too crampy and miserable. But if not, we'll do it in the shower. We move around too much for me to stay on a towel or something, and unless I can shower right after anyway I'm not fond of falling asleep all messy like that.
As much as I consider myself both a feminist and a bit of a hippie...And realize periods are natural and all that...I just can't embrace period blood the way I do certain other bodily fluids.
Nolu, on the topic of girls vs guys as sex partners...I've never had a female relationship or regular fwb or anything. Girls are HARD. They don't say what they mean and they're confusing. So pretty, but so confusing
As much as I consider myself both a feminist and a bit of a hippie...And realize periods are natural and all that...I just can't embrace period blood the way I do certain other bodily fluids.
Nolu, on the topic of girls vs guys as sex partners...I've never had a female relationship or regular fwb or anything. Girls are HARD. They don't say what they mean and they're confusing. So pretty, but so confusing
BF and I aren't bothered by it, but his shower is too tiny to have sex in (plus he's a lot taller than me so it makes it hard to manage anyway), and I usually feel crappy when I'm on my period, so it's rare.
BDSM. We're not lifestylers or anything but D/s is a huge and constant part of our sex life with some bondage thrown in there too. My previous LTRs were very vanilla and that's just... not for me, at all.
I used to leave his place so bruised up I was worried people would think there was something sketchy going on. I just like it rough, and basically any marks that were left on me were at my insistence, not his.
Let's add to this 'TMI' question thing. What's your kink/fetishes?
I used to leave his place so bruised up I was worried people would think there was something sketchy going on. I just like it rough, and basically any marks that were left on me were at my insistence, not his.
I would say us, too, but we're also open new things within reason. I think it would be interesting to try a little dom/sub action, but I haven't voiced that thought yet. He does a good job of reacting to my reactions, so he's kind of gathered some of it on his own.
And I don't know if it classifies as a fetish or not, but his mouth doing anything anywhere = turn on, especially with my neck. I've sported quite a few bite marks before, but luckily he's getting better at placing them where clothes hide them. LOL
And I don't know if it classifies as a fetish or not, but his mouth doing anything anywhere = turn on, especially with my neck. I've sported quite a few bite marks before, but luckily he's getting better at placing them where clothes hide them. LOL
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I wish my OH could be so easily trained and retain said training in the throes of passion and arousal. In winter time its no big deal, but its kind of hard to hide marks when its 110 degrees outside with clothes so ... canceler makeup is my go to for that purpose. in fact, its the only time I even wear makeup heh heh.
I wish my OH could be so easily trained and retain said training in the throes of passion and arousal. In winter time its no big deal, but its kind of hard to hide marks when its 110 degrees outside with clothes so ... canceler makeup is my go to for that purpose. in fact, its the only time I even wear makeup heh heh.
What was *really* bad was when he came back home for our wedding and we hadn't seen each other for practically 5 months. We were able to spend two nights together before the wedding and, well...when asked how I wanted to do my hair I had to tell my mother "Um, down. And draped across my shoulders to hide a certain...spot." :rofl1:
LTR for sure... I mean if you live with you LTR you're basically together all the time at home and no planning nessasary.
