Lets be old together i tell him. THat's a good idea he tells me. And this is how we are. Comfortable in our love for each other and understanding the changes that age has made. My fatigue, his blindness, and old man bladder, he has to go out about twice as often. Sometimes he gets scared, and disoriented, sometimes he can't find me. Sometimes he touche me with his whiskers until i think i can't think. But when we stop, and hold each other, all in our worlds are as they should be and the advanced years change nothing, this is timeless. I try to soak him in, and i try not to worry about how old he is. Because today, is a good day as long as we can do this.