Awww...I'm so glad hospice is going to be there. They are wonderful. I just lost my Dad and he was in a hospice facility and they took away all his pain and anxiety and made the family feel so much more at peace with this process...just expert, loving, wonderful, amazing people. So, that is a relief to me that Grammy will not have to continue with this pain and anxiety. The drugs are a miracle in themselves and the additional, loving care will smoothen Grammy's transition and things will feel more normal to her and the family. I just know it will be better. We love you Grammy and now you rest and relax and bask in the love of your family and friends.
And to the family, I wish for you to have some peace and a feeling of normalcy with this process...as much as you can during this time, acceptance... and to put celebrating her life over your sadness. (((((hugs))))))