And another thing. I was just analyzing what I think of when I think of my dogs and me. I mean this alpha thing is so tenacously hung onto by a lot of people. Okay, so alpha means number one in the Greek alphabet. Number one, assuming that it is more important than number 2 or 3 and so on. Higher up. The first.
That said, I don't consider myself number one with my dogs or more important. I don't consider them underneath me. I am not conscious of any hierarchy persay. So I teach them things so they don't become obnoxious, spoiled brats. I guide them and I do so by teaching them things. But to me, I'm not higher or better. We're just a different species.
My dogs are participants in the relationship, not mere followers all the time. We kind of go side by side. They teach me things too. But if I want to live harmoniously with another species, I need them to learn things.
So, to me, I don't see any real hierarchy within my dog/human family. I don't see any hierarchy between the dogs in my household either. There is no regular, consitent number one. It's completely fluid who gets their own way...who wins the bone. And that has nothing to do with hierarchy anyhow, IMO. It's just like siblings who may both want the same thing and one loses out one time and the other may get it the next time.