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Old 05-21-2005, 06:19 PM
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hi.
I read the article before saying that you were afraid yuo might have to give up Rocky, what happened with that?
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Old 05-21-2005, 07:51 PM
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It's still a possibility cause my dad and I pretty much hate each other.

And he hates dogs.
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Old 05-21-2005, 08:38 PM
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i am sorry that is the way it is Rocky..that would seriously suck..at least thru our difficulties..my son has always known i love him..and he the same..i could never hate him. Is it really that bad? Now my daughter did hate me for about 7 years..she is here tonight i will have her post and tell u her perspective now..things change and in suprising ways..this gurl tore me up inside..and now ..well we are all good if you know what i mean. A few years ago i didn't know if it would ever be like that.
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Old 05-21-2005, 09:26 PM
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I come home everyday and he's always in a crappy mood.

I try so **** hard to please him and it's not even funny.

I maintain a 3.4-3.5 GPA average all year. Why? Because my dad says "work hard in school, you better make good grades."

I take care of my dog which he hates and it's a HUGE responsibilty for me. I even find myself regretting that I had gotten him. Although, I do love him.

When he asks me to do some yard work or clean up in the house, I do it.

Every once in while, I'll forget. But holy ****, I'm only human. And a teenager at that.

He gets pissed since I didn't do it.

He's never ever satisfied with any one thing I do.

I can't EVER go out cause I don't really make any good friends. It's rare that I go to someones house or they come to mine.

The one friend I do have doesn't go to school and he barely lets me talk to him.

Today, I had gotten in a big fight with him.

Because I told him to stop hitting Rocky and that it would ruin his personality. He did this because Rocky peed on the floor.

He hit him twice and looked to hit him more but I told him not to.

I go to his room and he goes, I knock on his door and say, "Can I come in?"

And he says, "Is Rocky tied up?"

We have to do this sometimes when we leave or when we go to school/work.

And then I started arguing with him as to why I couldn't go to the movies with my friend. He gets angry... some things happened there.

Anyway, I untie Rocky and go to his room. He goes, "Get that * out of here."

And he chases I get pissed.

And I yell, "**** YOU!"

We've been in many fights like this and he REALLY pisses me off.

I can't do anything about it, cause he hates dogs.
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Old 05-21-2005, 11:44 PM
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He sound like a very tired, confused parent. I wish you and he could have a good heart to heart. He may be worried about finances, you and life in general. He is taking it out on Rocky . I hope you can talk.
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Old 05-22-2005, 01:09 AM
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i am always worried about money..Aaron and i argue about money..his getting a job (jst reapeat that indeffinatly) his not helping out enough at home...he says i am not listening to him..i say he is not listening to me..we go round and round and round..sound familiar? He is all i got to help out...he sees this as a temporary place in his life he will soon be leaving..he is only thinking of the future..i am trying to figure out how we will make it to the end of the week with enough gasoline to get him to school..being a single parent even when you have the best communication in the worlds sucks..and if you feel unappriciated then you are depressed as well.. so there is my situation..i am depressed about money and lack of appriciation from my son..he feels that he is going nuts with the girlfriend.and his mom is on his case 24-7..and nobody is hearing each other...i hope that you can really hear you dad and he will in turn really hear u..good luck..AAron and i have chiseled the wall down a few more bricks this week..but still he snapped at me today and guess what..i snapped right back. It isn't the way i want it to be either.
I wish your father didn't hate dogs..that just sucks..if i didn't have
Bronki and Mary i don't know how i would have survived the last 10 years...they were my sanity on 4 feet..they always listened..always cared..always appriciated my affections and expressions...i need some love in my life and that is where it comes from..Aaron loves me to..but if i try to hug him i think his skin would crawl..he is not a touch me kind of kid..and if i say pay attention to me he thinks i have gone plain nuts and need to get a life.
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Old 05-22-2005, 03:15 AM
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He's not really a confused parent.

Tired maybe, could be cause he works 2 jobs and is basically always working.
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Old 05-22-2005, 11:33 AM
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i worked two jobs for a long time until it gutted out my health.double shifts on thurs, fri, sat, and sun..then another job mon -thurs...i was angry that i had to do that too..sorry for him..sorry for u too. Life just shouldn't be so hard but for a lot of us it just plain is. Do you believe in your heart that your father loves u?
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Old 05-22-2005, 12:36 PM
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Well, if I were to bet a $1,000,000 on whether he loves me or not. I would take the side saying that he does love me.

Yeah, I know he loves me.

I love him too... but we get into some REALLY bad arguments and disagreements.

And he doesn't like dogs because he never had one growing up when he did have one--long story short--it was a bad experience.

And Rocky now, as a puppy, is A LOT of work...
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Old 05-22-2005, 01:25 PM
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Maybe he'll warm up to him . My Dad isn't a huge dog person, either....though he did have dogs as a kid and loved them a lot.....it's just how much it costs to care for them that bothers him. So I kind of know how that is.
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