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Old 01-31-2013, 11:56 AM
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Apparently she wants to apologize in person. I am hoping and praying that we can work this out.
I hope something good comes out of it.

I am NOT trying to say that you should dump her.. IF she wants to work it out.

But I've been in a couple situations where I was really emotionally damaged due to my 'friend'. A friend that I called my brother (we were not as close as you and your friend seem to be, though) was nearly bi polar. He would get really protective of me and advise me (act like a big brother) and then he would insult me, call me immature, a brat, whatever. And it hurt so much. And every single time, I went back. One day, I realized it wasn't worth it. Yes, he was a great friend when he wanted to be, but when he didn't want to be, he was HORRIBLE. I spent too many nights crying over his words to me.

I don't think it's necessarily part of 'growing up'. But it's going to happen, and I think that's what is meant. Especially since several people on here are in their 20's. You love and loss, live and learn a lot during this time.

I just don't want to see you upset. That might seem weird, but I don't mean to come across that way. I think most people don't like seeing other's go through hard times. Of course, we're going to have advice but honestly only you can decide what to do. Take everything with a grain of salt. Relationships are just hard. I haven't found a perfect one yet

Good luck. sincerely. You deserve to be happy, don't let anyone make you feel differently.


And yes... the job... ugh... I need a job but there's just so many cons to this one. And commission? Omg I am NOT a salesperson. I just don't feel comfortable doing it. I don't want people coming to my house. I'm a private person. That's annoying. You weren't invited.
Not to mention, hearing some of the 'icebreakers' these girls had.... so ridiculous. And really unprofessional, to me. They were laughing and giggling and making jokes about the house. (They weren't mean or rude, really... I'm just a stickler for manners, I guess.) They told a few people we were there for dinner. It managed to get awkward chuckles. And they acted like that was a good thing? *awkward chuckles*
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Old 01-31-2013, 02:26 PM
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Thank you so much Beanie and Airn. Your posts made me feel a lot better. Some validation is always nice and I hope we can work it out but like you said, Beanie, if not, it's more of a "mourning someone who isn't there anymore" type of thing. I don't know this new person and I don't like her. So yeah, I don't know. I think it would be a little easier if I didn't have to see her 2 to 4 times a week at church... It's a VERY small church and I am the pastor's daughter and the LAST thing I want to do is cause discord among the people in the church or cause her and her family to leave because of awkwardness or arguing. I don't think things will ever be the same whether she apologizes or not, but I hope things can be okay for us. Because I love her very much. And maybe oneday she will wake up and things can be better (like I said they won't be the same after what I've seen and heard from her).
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Old 01-31-2013, 04:14 PM
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It is 22* outside. The windchill is probably below 10*. I got to go home early today from work and got all nice and cozy in my apartment. Then I had to leave my nice and cozy apartment to walk to class. So I walk 20 minutes from my car to the classroom in the freezing cold weather...to find out class is canceled. Get to take another 20 minutes to walk back to my car - walking INTO the wind this time - to go home.

I am cold.
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Old 01-31-2013, 04:23 PM
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It is 22* outside. The windchill is probably below 10*. I got to go home early today from work and got all nice and cozy in my apartment. Then I had to leave my nice and cozy apartment to walk to class. So I walk 20 minutes from my car to the classroom in the freezing cold weather...to find out class is canceled. Get to take another 20 minutes to walk back to my car - walking INTO the wind this time - to go home.

I am cold.
LOL "freezing"... 22*...

Anyway, that sucks I hate getting all cozy just to go out for no reason
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Old 01-31-2013, 05:43 PM
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It was 70 and sunny early yesterday, it started pouring and was dark and windy by late afternoon, today it is freezing and it's been snowing while nice and sunny. Wut.
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Old 01-31-2013, 05:47 PM
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LOL "freezing"... 22*...

Anyway, that sucks I hate getting all cozy just to go out for no reason
Well it is technically freezing. Lol freezing point is 32 degrees
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Old 01-31-2013, 07:43 PM
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At the clinic...nobody has set hours. The schedule is NEVER the same for anyone from one week to the next. I just don't understand it. Why can't the schedule be the same every week? Granted now it's mostly stable for me because the only time I'm available is all day Friday and every other Saturday, and every 4th Sunday for kennels...but it still seems to vary.
That's always so weird to me. Like... isn't it easier for everyone involved (including the person who has to make the darn schedule) if the schedule just stayed the same?!


I keep getting excited that tomorrow is Friday, and then I remember that I work Saturday too. I hate when that happens lol.
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Old 01-31-2013, 08:42 PM
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I am having freak the fcuk out moment right now.
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:41 PM
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I'm so tired of my family calling my dogs stupid (well, my mom and my brothers, my dad never does this..alas, he is also a dog person). And then when I get upset about it, *I'm* the horrible person, and instead of apologizing, they try to justify it

Funny, perfect strangers don't seem to call my dogs stupid. If anything they tend to complement my dogs. It's just my FAMILY that has to insult my dogs and me all the time.
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Old 01-31-2013, 09:43 PM
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I had an ice cream float from marble slab today against my better judgement.

I'm lactose intolerant.

I'm paying for it now, ugh.
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