Vibes/wishes/anything please for my friend!

[StephyMei1112]

I'm so sorry and feel bad for spamming the past few days about my friend but...I have a very bad and strange feeling that she may have hurt herself in the past few days or killed herself last night/sometime today

She usually is onto me with messages and calls everyday throughout the day, but she's been really quiet since sunday morning - only replying with "I'm busy", "ttyl", "its ok thxs" etc - she won't take any calls.

It is extremely unlike her to want space or not want to talk - at the most she might do that for half a day or a few hours - but not nearly 5 days. I haven't heard ANYTHING from her since last night and I'm scared s*itless that she's done something to herself. I've called 911 but they said something about 48 hours passing before issuing a missing report and it'll take them some time before they get to her place tonight to knock on her door - I was just there, she's not in anyways.

She was raised christian and she said something the past weekend about "it's all just a lie, just a stupid fantasy, nothing out there is there for anybody...". I asked her to tell me and that usually we would share every little thing with each other and she just sort of drifted off into silence and started talking about her hair being dry....vibes, wishes and anything else any of you people can muster up for my friend would be much appreciated. I don't want to see her dead or ending up in a bad place...

[yoko]

I'm sending vibes but already sounds like this is a bad place.

What did you tell 911? If you tell them she is suicidal they DO NOT WAIT like they do a missing persons. You need to call and make them very aware she is willing to hurt herself.

If you really think something is going on you need to call and tell them that now. It really isn't the time to worry about stepping on anyone's toes.

[StephyMei1112]

I told the operator she was feeling very suicidal and had said many times over the past two weeks or so that she really wanted to die - the operator seemed more focused on the missing persons report and said she would "make a note" of suicidal/self harm tendencies.

I think I need to make another call...

[yoko]

Originally Posted by StephyMei1112

I told the operator she was feeling very suicidal and had said many times over the past two weeks or so that she really wanted to die - the operator seemed more focused on the missing persons report and said she would "make a note" of suicidal/self harm tendencies.

I think I need to make another call...

Yes you do. Don't say 'my friend is missing'. Say 'I am unable to reach my depressed suicidal friend'. You want a wellness check not a missing persons report. If the operator doesn't do anything as for another operator or the supervisor there. wellness checks are not put off.

[StephyMei1112]

They have her address and license plate number - she's not at home for sure though - at least not right now.

Gosh, why does this year just keep getting worse and worse for me and those around me??

[crazedACD]

I don't want to cause excessive worry, but does she live with anyone? Has anyone gone into the home to check, just in case she did do something to herself and is in there ?

Major major vibes your way..hope she is found soon and can get the help she needs.

[JessLough]

Absolutely what yoko said. Tell them she is a harm to herself and you think she already did something. Say she told you she was going to kill herself and lie if you have to. If they don't do anything, hang up and call again, you'll likely get somebody else. Tell them you will make sure the papers hear all about it if she kills herself after you calling them and they refused to do anything. Call everybody you two have in common that you can. Tell them they need to get into the house and check -- not just leave if she doesn't answer

[StephyMei1112]

She lives alone - she really keeps to herself and her neighbors don't know/care about her.

I'm her ONLY friend - so I can't even call on a mutual person or her family to ask about her...

[JessLough]

Also, if they try the "2 days" thing, tell them it HAS been -- it's been five days.

Heck, I know a member here had the cops hanging on her door when her parents called them cause she hadn't posted on Facebook in 2 days. It is done, you just have to be a pain sometimes

[JessLough]

Does she have Facebook? Twitter? Message every friend she has on there asking if theyve heard from or seen her since Sunday. Dont have to give details, you just need to talk to her.